StarsAndLightng
42 San Carlos, United States
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My self-summary
Caring, quirky, stylish, dynamic ISFP girl seeks partner for adventure, exercise, deep talks, funny banter, and silent nights watching a fire or listening to the crickets....
What I’m doing with my life
Weekdays
- Working in government amongst people I really enjoy and learning how to be a better manager
- hanging with my kid and doing flash cards :)
- trying to make something delicious from the usual things in the fridge
- when I don't have my kid, I like going out with a friend or co-worker for dinner

Weekends
- visiting my dog (walks, hiking, watching tv while cuddling)
- tennis with my kid
- just a bit of clothing/shoe shopping if it happens to be convenient....Love a good deal! But shopping can be a chore.
- visiting my favorite pizza, boba, burger, pasta place
- hanging with my family

Generally, very self-reflective and trying to be more sensitive and more communicative. Also, saving $$ for my house (but not too hard).
I’m really good at
- Cooking and grilling
- Simplifying my possessions
- Acting according to conscience
- Returning text and emails
- making it up as I go!

The above feels like an opportunity for gratuitous bragging so I included....

Terrible at:
- listening to voicemails
- watching a whole day of sports
- being super girly
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe that I'm pretty open, energetic, confident, and casual...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read Fiction -- some books I read recently are Lazaretto (amazing post civil war era story--- totally intrigued by pre- and post-civil war era content at the moment), Love May Fail, Bel Canto, and No Way To Treat A First Lady.

Love music: Eclectic mix of hip hop, 90s grunge, 80s pop, Top 40s... Such as these:

70's - Gap band, Lionel Richie

80's - Hall n Oates, New Order, Whitney Houston, Madonna, Prince

90's - Smashing Pumpkins, Pixies, R&B, Maxwell, Mariah

Now - Usher, Nicki Minaj (see beyond the hits and you will find a poet), Rhihana, Top 40

Movies - Romance and comedies are like chicken soup on a cold night :) I like to watch movies at home at night and save the day for enjoying the fresh air, exploring and exercising.

Tv: I don't actually watch much. If I like a show, I'll watch it marathon style on Netflix or on my cable app... Generally, I enjoy Anthony Bourdain, Chopped, Cutthroat Kitchen, some reality shows (Kardashians and WAGS). (This is obviously not meant to impress but to give you the real picture) :)

Food: I like all kinds of food, healthy/greasy, ethnic, and fine dining. BBQ, fried anything, and pie are always welcome :)
The six things I could never do without
- Sweets (pies, boba tea, fro yo preferred)
- Veggies
- Warm things like blankets, warm coats etc
- Jeans, Tshirts, and breathable fabrics
- Frying pan
- Waffle/pancake/biscuit mix
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Challenges of discipline and guidance (parenting)
- Self growth
- how to get it all done as fast as
possible, so I can read in bed with my book to the sun/ nap with my dog/ play tennis with my kid/ hang out with my person :)
- Those happy, long term relationships that just last and last --- how do they do it??!!??
On a typical Friday night I am
When I have a free night, I would love to get coffee/eat dinner out and walk around in the night air and enjoy each other's company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My dream is to have a little house, with a close knit nuclear family, a yard, and a dog... Within a year or so, I want to do a cross country Roadtrip (especially exploring rust belt and south/southeast).
You should message me if
You are also looking for a committed relationship and are adventurous, optimistic, expressive, like many of the same things and wanna share :)
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