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My self-summary
I am looking for a crockpot kind of love. Sustained and steady, warm and ready. Slow to cook and not too heady.

I'm great conversation in most situations - I try to keep up on most topics, and if I don't know something I'm happy to learn.

I've been told it's surprising I'm an avid gamer - it's probably my favorite hobby and I'd like to share that with someone.

Soft butch.
What I’m doing with my life
Consumption of media.
Being accused of witchcraft.
Playing video games when I get the chance.
Completing a Master's program (and getting too involved in said program.)
Salty snacks.
I’m really good at
Words, small talk, eye contact.

Leaving my head uncovered.

Entertaining your mother.
The first things people usually notice about me
The abyss in my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Glamorama, Rules of Attraction, Less than Zero, and Imperial Bedrooms by Bret Easton Ellis
Bright Lights, Big City & Story of My Life by Jay McInerney
Colors Insulting to Nature by Cintra Wilson
The City and the Pillar by Gore Vidal
The Secret History by Donna Tartt

The Royal Tenenbaums
The House of Yes
Annie Hall
Die Ehe der Maria Braun
Broken English
Love and Death
Murder by Death
The Cheap Detective
Frances Ha
The Last Days of Disco
The Skeleton Twins

30 Rock
Grace & Frankie
Happy Endings
Mary Hartman, Mary Hartman
Arrested Development
Strangers with Candy
Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
Jane the Virgin
The Comeback
Murphy Brown
Too many others.

Joanna Newsom
Kate Bush
Elvis Costello
Neutral Milk Hotel
David Bowie
Lou Reed/Nico/The Velvet Underground
Carole King
Laura Nyro
Owen Pallett
Dusty Springfield
The Mountain Goats
Cat Stevens
The Smiths/Morrissey
Frankie Cosmos

The six things I could never do without
my toes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to humiliate my social rivals through intrigue and court politics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably wondering if it's worth braving the weather.
If yes, dancing with friends.
If no, whiling away til the wee hours.

For this year, it's working on grad school readings and writing before an early bed time. :/
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually a mannequin brought to life by an ancient curse.
You should message me if
You can deliver more than "hi" or "what's up?"

You are capable of speaking about a topic you love to a stranger with enough detail you fear that you'll bore them. You consider learning to be your life's pursuit, in or out of the classroom. You are tall. You want to hear about farm life. You're proud of your work. You think flakiness is a cardinal sin. You would never dare use "renaissance man" to describe yourself. You have fond feelings for Northwestern. You enjoy the flirtation, but know how to close.

If we get one of those match emails from OKCupid, I'm probably giving you the go ahead. I won't be mean, I promise. Seriously.