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My self-summary
I am warm-hearted, grounded, creative, and brave.
What I’m doing with my life
- enjoying embodiment
- sharing my gifts
- dancing with spirit
- following my weird
- making love, community, art, magic, and pickles
I’m really good at
- making a good meal out of random ingredients
- cooking for large numbers of people (like 150)
- collaboration and improvisation
- inhabiting ecstatic states
- rowing whitewater
- editing and writing
- integrating dualities
- screwing around on the Internet
- empathetic listening and giving pep talks
- getting people to help me with my projects and enjoy it
- singing, sometimes in front of others, more or less on key
The first things people usually notice about me
Big girl, snappy dresser, warm smile, clear voice, firm handshake
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Always Coming Home
Little, Big
Out of Africa
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek
the Tao Te Ching
the Aubrey and Maturin books

Lawrence of Arabia
A Thousand Clowns
The Lion in Winter

No TV, but I watch Mad Men online. Also Six Feet Under, The Sopranos, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, and of course Portlandia.

Funky stuff
Sacred music
World music
Anything where people are singing their asses off

I believe that every time you eat something you've never had before, you add 75 days to your life. I relish smoked fish, ripe mangoes, strong coffee, homemade ferment, Bufalo chipotle, greens from the garden, asparagus, Oregon berries, the meat of our friend the pig, and pure wholesome butter. I like just about everything else, too, except for sea urchin roe and food that tastes bad.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next right thing to do
The Tao of striving and surrender
How to practice
What the imaginary people in the computer are talking about
How to shine my light without burning out
How to make my home more beautiful and orderly
What's going on with my community and the people I love
Upcoming projects and fun events
On a typical Friday night I am
at home with housemates at our weekly community potluck
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm culturally queer, pretty kinky, and loyally polyamorous.
You should message me if
- you are a mensch of any sex
- you are sapiosexual
- you appreciate gender as an art form
- you like big butts and you cannot lie
- you go for dykey chicks
- you yourself are somewhat on the freaky side
The two of us