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My self-summary
If you are looking for a "nice, normal girl," or you are a "chill, laid back guy, " I'd just stop where you are. If you're a weird kid like me, stop reading this and put this track on first:

237 up, 18 down
a dreamgirl; a fairy; Queen of stars
a guy, as soon as he realizes his dream mate in front of him: "She is the Stella of my dreams!"
-Urban dictionary

noun. crack - shot
adverb. suddenly

A kinkster, a witch, a nerd. I'm from NYC. I'm poly and live with my dog, cats and partner. They/them/theirs. I like going on dates.

What I’m doing with my life
Entering super-saiyan mode.

I'm a sex educator.
I’m really good at
reading tarot cards, reading comic books, cooking without a cookbook, cooking for lots of people, knitting, using analogies.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Stella, your fly is open."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Rat Queens
Red Sonja
Squirrel Girl
Hell Cat
Ms. Marvel
Silver Surfer
Guardians of the Galaxy
Wonder Woman
The Goon
Battling Boy
Iron Fist and Power Man
Moon girl and Devil Dinosaur
T Rex Trying
Table Titans

The Slingshot at Coney Island.

All the Marvel tv shows on Netflix. Very excited for Luke Cage.
The six things I could never do without
My dog and cats
My wonderful partner
My bike and Camelbak
My queer community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's their secret superpowers? (Everybody's got one.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and knitting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The more I grow up, the more I understand that adulthood is a chance to be a hero or atleast not an asshole.
You should message me if
Your life runs best when you communicate well with others.

You're a nerd/witch/polycule/switch.

You only spend your time on people who treat you excellently, and you treat them excellently too.

You can get really exited about being a nerd AND you think misogyny stinks.

You don't smoke. I just quit after 12 years.

You are not racist, transphobic, homophobic, or a big jerkface.

You will let me pick your brain about science, technology or history. Brains are delicious.

You are not trying to be cool. I'm not a cool kid.

Your perfect second date includes an activity and is not just getting a drink or a food thing. Let's go to the gym or museum or park or book-store.

You can have fun sober. I know our generation is supposed to drink a lot and do a lot of drugs, but I'm either allergic to it or I find it frightfully boring. When I want to indulge, I prefer going to the sauna.