49 Montclair, United States
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My self-summary

I will try and keep this relatively short since I’m much better at talking about me in person, than I am about writing about me…but hopefully, there’s enough here to give you a sense of me...


I’m fun and caring …a good friend and a good listener. I've got a dark dry sense of humor, that arm wrestles at times with my inner optimist. I’m much happier in small groups than big crowds…and prefer a quiet nite to a club…but those are both sweeping generalizations…I have moments where I enjoy crowed and noisy too…I’m just selective about them. (See hockey and concert notes below!)


-Music…all kinds. I play drums and guitar (badly), and love going to see live music whether its in a small club or an arena. Sometimes I still play air guitar. It’s embarrassing, and I’m learning not to do it in public.

-I’m a big sports fan with and a big fan of hockey in particular. I’ve had NY Rangers season tix for 20 years. (There’s an extra seat…join me!)
If Yankees or Mets matters, I’m a Mets fan (as painful as that may be).

-A good read…recently I loved A Visit from the Goon Squad and Let the Great World Spin. Cormac McCarthy, Michael Chabon, and too many others to name round out the favorites list.

-NYC…after living in Manhattan for 15 years, I moved to NJ 10 years ago. I’m still not used to saying I live there. I love the city and am still there daily for work.

-My kids. They’re 10 and 13 and are the adventure that never ends.


I prefer dogs to cats.

I have a terrible sweet tooth. I never met chocolate I didn’t like.

I prefer Red to White (and sometimes prefer a beer, vodka or other to wine anyway!)

My title at work has “Creative” in it…so I’ve at least fooled somebody into thinking I’m creative enough to pay me for it. I do a fair amount of travel for work…unfortunately, sometimes to Orlando.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live it in a way that makes my kids proud. They mean the world to me.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating. Can I answer this later?
The first things people usually notice about me
I rarely ask them...but i suppose it could be my green eyes. Or that my fly is open. I hope its the former.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way way too many of each to pick a few...
A huge lover of live music though...all kinds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why is it that every time I'm flipping around and Fletch is on...I have to watch it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Either hanging out with my kids or with friends. Having a drink, listening to music, seeing a movie...or just happily having a quiet night on the couch. All depends on what opportunities present themselves!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, when I write LOL, it wasn't really OL. I feel terrible about that.