Movies.......Foreign, Dramas, Criterion, Art House, anything really.
TV........House of Cards, Deadwood, Game of Thrones, Rome, Colbert Report, Boardwalk Empire, Homeland
Music.........Amon Tobin, Bonobo, Johnny Cash, Aesop Rock, Definitive Jux, Run the Jewels, El-P Les Miserables, Wagner, Clint Mansell, DJ Shadow, Dropkick Murpheys, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Iggy and the Stooges, James Brown, Koushik, Leonard Cohen, Ralph Stanley, Mary Prankster, Muddy Waters, RJD2, Sex Pistols. I could go on and on.
2. Stupid, senseless kindness
4. Tough love