I am looking for a male dominant or top for a play relationship and companionship. If we click, it could become a long-term secondary relationship. I really LOVE to play at play parties, and that is something not currently being met in my primary relationship that I'm hoping to be able to do with a new partner. **I've recently found a dominant and secondary that I love deeply, so my available time and level of interest in a new partner is minimal.**
I'm a passionate person, who is geeky, likes board & video games, loves to travel, enjoys 80's prog rock, fast vehicles, needlework, sewing, cooking and movies.
Along the way, I've become very involved with the GLBT and Leather communities. I'm a compulsive volunteer... but I'm trying to scale back some so that I can focus on myself and the people I care about for a while. I have a serious case of what the Leather Community calls "Voluntitis." If you want to know more check out the Volunon web site. (Warning--this is funny, in that "Oh, that's too true..." way.)
At this point in my life, I'm at a crossroads and trying to decide what to do with the eclectic mix (aka hodgepodge!) of education and experience. I'm working on a book about my particular space in the BDSM/Leather/Kink universe, and have a nibble from a publisher, so I really should be doing that rather than updating my OKC profile... but alas... here I am.
I'm also good at cooking, database design, troubleshooting, writing Crystal Reports, and writing in general.
Oh, and what am I thinking... I'm a switch so I top sometimes and I'm really good with floggers and single tails. Those are my favorite toys as a top or a bottom.
Movies--I LOVE going to movies... I used to live in the LA area and would take advantage of test screenings as often as possible, and I really miss that. I lean toward action-adventure and indie films, but will watch almost anything. Also, if you are a fan of The Princess Bride and/or Holy Grail... guess what? Me too!!! I am one of those annoying sorts that will pop out quotes from those movies at odd moments.
Any type of theatre is fun--Shakespeare to Blue Man Group.
Music... I am a big fan of Peter Gabriel and Kate Bush. Both of them have music that has been wonderful and moving. But, I'm not a music snob. There's moving music out there in all genres that I've totally adored. However, I've recently discovered I'm not a fan of "atonal" music--that was like cats running all over instruments at the symphony--ack.
My favorite food to eat is Middle Eastern food, followed closely by Mediterranean. But I eat and cook just about anything that seems interesting.