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My self-summary
Ok, so filling these things out is super awkward! But the voyeur in me loves reading all of your answers and questions and test results! So out of a sense of fairness, here I go....

Word on the street is that I'm smart and strong and confident and capable. I love deeply and easily. My deepest intent is to inspire others to see the beauty in themselves that I see in them. That can be pretty large space to hold depending on where people are on their journey.

I can be found alternating between flitting about town busy as a bee with professional and social commitments; and snarked into the couch all day with good movies, a blanket and a pot of tea.

I've lived a lot and loved a lot and lost a lot and lived to tell the tale that life is good!
What I’m doing with my life
Building an empire! It's a tremendous amount of work and I find it simultaneously frightening and freeing. Dancing with your life's passion at this level is invigorating in a way I didn't expect. It would most certainly though be lovely to have someone near to clink glasses with when I'm celebrating those big successes that keep showing up along this journey!
I’m really good at
Inspiring people! [...and really bad at completing dating profiles in a voice that sounds like "dating me" and not "writer me"!]

But surprisingly, I'm also good at random personality type tests! I seem to have developed an unexpected addiction to the little quizzes this site offers. How fun are they?! Yeah! I did like 40 of them! LOL! What the hell?!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile & My Aura. I know it sounds like hokey California, but it's true. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is the hardest section. Linear decision making feels so limiting when there are so many wonderful lovely things out there! But 1st thoughts on some favorites include:

Books - The Fifth Sacred Thing, Anything Arthurian, Anything by Queen Afua, Anything by Paulo Coehlo, Things Fall Apart, The Life You Were Born To Live, Green Eggs and Ham, Numerology and Your Health, Attention Deficit Disorder in Women, and lately, 50 Shades of Grey. Lastly, I just started reading Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramhansa Yogananda for the 1st time and love the stories of Lahiri Mahasaya!

Movies - Cornbread, Earl and Me, Leap of Faith, Better than Chocolate, Hitch, The Secret, Noah's Arc - The Wedding, Introducing Dorothy Dandridge, Gia, Airplane!, Dave Chappelle's Block Party, The Associate with Whoopi Goldberg, The Best Man, and my all time favorite Paul Blart Mall Cop!

Shows - Prefer sparkles and nudity and singing in my shows. :-) Doesn't everyone?

Music - Wow. Hmmm. Well, I'm from Chicago originally, so real House music would top the list. Then Classic Rock, Cuban Salsa, and Neo Soul. I can do some Nancy Wilson or some Nas. Some Dar Williams in the background or two-step to some country. I love classical and have been getting introduced to Opera. Gregorian chants, R&B, folk tunes, Gospel and polka's can make me wiggle. It's really easier to name music that's not a favorite, namely real hard metal, death rock, techno, & jazz that sounds too electronic or disjointed.
Six things I could never do without
Mexican Food
Interesting Conversation
Good Friends
Great Lovemaking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My to do list! I know that sounds hopelessly workaholic, but I'm doing big things in the world these days and my to do list is my link to forward progress and acknowledgement when the days fly by! But I am eager to be distracted by beauty and fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really do typical. Might be anywhere on a Friday or nowhere at all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh my! A lady never tells! ;-)
You should message me if
You know, this section has been blank since I join this site. Mostly because I wasn't sure what I was looking for. Today, I think you should message me like what I wrote, think our personalities are a good match, and are interested in marriage and family.

I feel like my life is so full and wonderful that I came on here to fill in the one last missing piece...a beautiful, beloved, partner in love and adventure.

Message me if it might be you.
The two of us