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My self-summary
Hey, I'm Jesse 😜 I am bad with opening lines, a bit shy at first and very picky so if i give you a simple "hi" , i am being sincere.

Single Dad. Aries. My son is nine!! We live in Venice half a block from the beach.
I am as active as possible with my crazy schedule. Sharing time with my son is number one for me since he will likely have his own appartment by age 12. I llllllove being outdoors.. I run and bike on the beach, hike, skate, climb, surf (beginner), yoga and I study a really cool martial art. My son is a level four gymnist. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree, Sequoia🌲

I am a hairdresser! I am also working on a kids clothing line. I can talk about clothing..

I am obsessed with music, books, film, art and pop culture.
I play different instruments and sing uncontrollably. My son and I have a goth rock group. It's going to be huge.👻

I grew up in San Francisco in the inner Richmond/Haight Ashbury area. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up there a lot.

I'm vegetarian. I haven't committed to vegan yet due to my hopeless cheese addiction. I love to cook. We are at the farmers market every week. I stir fry a lot. Coconut oil. Any recommendations on seasoning?

This is kind of personal but I think transparency is warranted:::
My son's Mom passed when he was a year old. It was devestating and a very difficult transition. It's been over 8 years and we are happy, and do just f.i.n.e ;) I have grown so much from this experience..
His Nana lives close by and loves spending time with him so i do have help;)

I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people to hang out and create with. Friends are always good.

As far as what i'm looking for in a relationship.. Someone with big heart, tough, funny, likes my dry humor, has a wild imagination, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, embraces the unknown, is passionate and creative in her work, lives to help others, and the planet and all it's creatures, *communicates well , tries to not harbor resentments, is introspective, shares interests, is curious, reads!, likes the rosebowl, relatively similar taste in music would be cool, loves animals, and kids!
What I’m doing with my life
Growing. Listening. Daydreaming. Loving. Being creative.
I’m really good at
Being authentic. Showing up. Being a Dad. Staying positive. Doing hair. Finding gems at flea markets. Making lists. Making fun of myself..and others. Making salads. Making up new words. Mario Kart. Doodling. Untangling my headphones. Recycling. Foot massages. Other stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Beatles, Stones, TheCURE, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, Iggy Pop, TheStooges, NeilYoung, TheReplacements, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, TheCure, FleetwoodMac, GillianWelch, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, DefLeppard, Cinderella, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, FrancoiseHardy, Jaques Dutronc, France Gall, MuddyWaters, Ramones, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, DeadCanDance, LisaGerard, TommyJames&Shondells, TheSeeds, LeonardCohen, BertJansch, JoeMeek, TameImpala, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, HankWilliams, SamCooke, Otis, EverlyBrothers, AlGreen, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, NinaSimone, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, Zep, Queen, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, TheFall, CrystalCastles, DepecheMode, Cold Cave, SkinnyPuppy, SistersOfMercy, ChristianDeath, SamTheShamAndThePaharoahs, WhiteFence, The OhSees, AnimalCollective, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, Heart, SlaughterAndTheDogs, Vaselines, Saints, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Jane'sAddiction, NWA, Television, DrDre, LinkWray, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, GeorgeHarrison, RaviShankar, BuffaloSpringfield, DelShannon, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, CheapTrick, BeastieBoys, MCEiht, Snoop, JesusAndMaryChain, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, JohnPrine, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, GaryNuman, Berlin, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Felt, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, RoyalTrux, Kills, BRMC, SilverApples, SergeGainsbourg, FrancoisHardy, EnnioMorricone, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood & Nancy Sinatra, Nico, Outkast, TheMeters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, TheWho, SmallFaces, SonicYouth, CicconeYouth, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilley, TomPetty&Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, SlickRick, TheAssociation, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, BlackAngels, BlackLips, BeachHouse, RadioDept, Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, AmonDuul ll, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, GrizzlyBear, Verve, Spiritualized, XTC, MyBloodyValentine, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink, KateBush, MoodyBlues, Them, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, Shirelles, LorettaLynn, DollyMixture, TelevisionPersonalities, StoneRoses, TheLa's, TheAllahLas, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave&BadSeeds, Can, SilverApples, CaptainBeefheart, Zappa, Raveonettes, Air, WildNothing, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, TheVentures, TalkingHeads, TheSweet, DustySpringfield, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA

50s rocknroll + doo wop, 60s pop and psych, 70s bubblegum, old blues, ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day ..KXLU, KCRW, NPR.. Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Chopin, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel

Henry Miller, Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabokov, Novalis, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-Tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, Palahniuk, GabrielGarciaMarquez, Tolkien, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, CornelWest, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, Freud, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, DorothyAllison, KathyAcker, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, RayBradbury, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, JohnRechy, TomRobbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, AliceWalker, RitaMaeBrown, LaurenBecall, Milton, LaVey, Zinn, Giroux, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, AnaisNin, DiPrima, GeorgeBernardShaw, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, JohnWaters, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, TheWarOfArt, Psychomagic-Jodorowsky, Popism-Warhol ..

Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, Tarkovsky, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, GreyGardens, AdventuresOfPippiLongstocking, UNICO, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection.. Earthlings, Food Inc, Sirius,
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.

Stranger Things, Seinfeld, AdventureTime, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, FreshPrince, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, TopChef, NakedAndAffraid, AttackOnTitan, SailorMoon, Ramna1/2, AnneOfGreenGables, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, AmericanHorrorStory, PlanetEarth, Life, SharkWeek, CurbYourEnthusiasm, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, MarcoPolo, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, TheFactsOfLife, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..

Food:: Vegetarian, Pho, Japanese Indian

Art:: Degenerate

Ansel Adams
The six things I could never do without
My Son, dreams, love, friends, family, animals, nature, laughter, blue skies, clouds, rain, music, roadtrips, the beach, sunglasses, picnics, bonfires, pillows, tea and coffee, books (the smell of used bookstores), jokes, absurdity..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lies i tell myself
Why i am still single
My childhood in SF
Letting go (of thoughts and ideas that hold me)
My son and who he is becomming
My sisters
The appocolypse
How insane this world is
How fucked up our political system is
How we are all connected
Where my car is parked
Black holes
Vortex cabinets
What if's..
Places I want to go
The earth without humans🌱
Deeep sea
I wish I was raised by wolves
Coast redwoods
How i can be a better human
What's for dinner
Tree houses
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends
Playing music with friends
Bike rides
Home. Book. Records. Netflix. Tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't blow a bubble ..yet
You should message me if
You aren't flakey.. Sometimes is not a problem. We all reserve that right..we work hard and deserve some slack.

💥Bonus points if you ride an 80s road bike or can skate. Moonlight skates on the beach are dreamy.