34 Santa Barbara, United States
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My self-summary
I hope you love the sound of the piano because I am a pianist... mostly classical and I've written my own pieces, too. On the average day, I'm in front of a keyboard a few hours and well past the days of driving people crazy with scales. Living in Santa Barbara is paradise and I hope you are here, too, or close by. I would love to hear what you enjoy doing the most in this lovely Cali atmosphere.

I'm not really interested in the bar scene and I thought I'd give online dating a try. I don't mind simple camaraderie and would be happy to share funny, awkward, and outrageous stories. I think of myself as being easy-going and my personal goal these days is to stay in the present and enjoy what life brings. I definitely have a silly, goofy side and it comes out with time!

I recently took the 5 Languages of Love test and my scores were 7 out of 10 each for of Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation; and a 1 for Receiving Gifts. Having said that... I remember a time when someone drove 20 miles to bring me hot chocolate and thought that was one of the sweetest things ever.

I prefer meaningful committed relationships taken one day at a time.

ISFJ-A: Introverted: 57%, Observant: 69%, Feeling: 61%,
Judging: 95%, Assertive: 56%.
What I’m doing with my life
Everything music related.
I’m really good at
Running down flights of stairs. Haven't tripped... yet.

Listening and being supportive.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I treat them with respect and acceptance for who they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like films that make me think, and crying isn't a bad thing. Some sci-fi. I could do without horror, though.

I mostly listen to jazz and alternative while I'm driving.
The six things I could never do without
- Love/hope/happiness
- Music and imagination
- Honesty and communication
- Sunsets and scenic places
- Computer/phone/car
- Chocolate!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Destiny versus self-determination

Staying in the present versus the past/future
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out, maybe salsa dancing, playing the piano, or a movie!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a Trekkie (but no, I haven't gone to a convention)
You should message me if
You're interested in having intimate conversations about what's most important in life... and willing to flirt at the same time :)