36 Jenison, United States
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My self-summary
I am:
a son/grandson, a brother, an uncle, and a friend
a hard worker
a deep thinker
a gamer
a lost soul
looking for a partner

Stuff about me:
*I have a great sense of humor
*I'm a good listener
*I enjoy having a conversation just to learn from someone else, or about them
*I love the beach
*I love to make people laugh

I've been dating for several years since my divorce. I find that while I enjoy spending some time with friends at the bar, I want more. I hope to meet someone with interests and goals of their own. Someone who is looking for a relationship because they want one, not because they feel they need one to be complete. Someone who isn't into drama. I want someone who will be my friend and peer. Give when I need it, and honestly tell me if I have failed to notice when they need the giving in return. I may not be perfect, but I can be amazing when you least expect it.
What I’m doing with my life
My goals:
*Buy a house (almost there)
*Swear less.
*Be more forgiving and less cynical.

I work for a mortgage company.

I volunteer at Mackenzie's Animal Sanctuary mostly for their Texas Hold 'Em tournaments - and I donate blood at the Red Cross
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Listening. Offering a persuasive argument. Making plans. Witty Sarcasm
The first things people usually notice about me
My bright eyes and quirky smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I haven't updated this in a while,

Books - American Gods, Ender's Game series , Harry Potter, Series, Lord of the Rings, Elmore Leonard, Novels, Fantasy, Thriller, Horror, Science Fiction, Most anything by Neil Gaiman,

Movies - Comedy, Horror, Sci-Fi, Drama, Romance

TV/Music - Alternative, Industrial, Oldies, Classic Rock, bits and pieces of almost everything. My play list is in limbo at the moment, as most of my music has been lost.

Food - Mostly Italian and Mexican, though I'm looking to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
Freedom of speech
a sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My family, work, and what I'll be doing on the weekend
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends, hanging out, going to movies, reading, watching television, going out to dinner, or chatting online or the phone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do not own a smart phone. I think it's almost 5-6 years old now. I love new technology, but my old phone works fine and I just never saw a reason to replace it.
You should message me if
You are: Open minded, fun, intelligent, or looking to meet new people.

You're willing and brave enough to ask for what you want.