28Beaverton, United States
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My self-summary
I'm Benjamin; kinky, dominant-leaning switch for a lover and/or gamer and game design buddies. In an open relationship, which will be an open marriage when my partner gets here. She's overseas right now.

I do consider myself a feminist, very much of the sex positive type, and I have a lot of kink theory stuff I would be happy to chat about.

Beyond that though, I'm a massive nerd who is hugely physical with partners; dancing, sexuality, wrestling, playful brawling, showering with a partner and curling up wrapped around eachother are things I love.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing smut, playing and designing games, taking naps, and day by day, week by week saving up money towards the goal of not needing to have a roommate.

It's not the fanciest existence but ultimately I live for the delightful events which can exist in the moment to moment.

Every time I write a story that I think is the new best one.
Every delicious burrito.
Improving my scores in a game.
Finishing designing an enemy or ability in a game I'm making.
The feeling of soreness and exhaustion shared with a lover.
That victorious cry in my heart after a hard wrought day at work.

I don't need anything fancy, I just like to enjoy every little fragment of victory and satisfaction I find in my day to day, week to week life.
I’m really good at
Performance, adaptability, imagination, and kink stuff.

Also, writing, and cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear vests almost all the time.

Even when the heat can, for so many layers, be described as "utter bullshit".
Six things I could never do without
I function on whatever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, meat, kink, and more meat.

Video games, both playing and making.

The feeling of a partner's head atop my chest.

Why is glitch hop so good.

Concepts for comedy podcasts
You should message me if
You're a lady in either the Seattle or Portland area and you want to talk with and possibly meet someone who's not looking for anything even the slightest bit serious, but wants to have a lot of fun, and is shameless and hedonistic about it.

You're a guy or a couple interested in discussing the possibility of a threesome.

You want to challenge me to a game of something.

You want to take dance classes with me.

You want to put on an improv comedy show of some kind.
The two of us