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My self-summary
I operate under the philosophy that whatever makes you happy and doesn't hurt others, must be good. If such things as good and bad exist. I am not entirely sure where I'm going to end up, but I have a pretty good idea of where I'm going.

I'm secure in who I am, even if my head gets lost in the clouds a fair amount.

I like to try new things; the more it pushes my existing comfort levels and changes how I see something, the better.
What I’m doing with my life
Creating my own little space in a nonsensical world. Exploring, experimenting, tasting.

I own my company.
I’m really good at
Solving problems.

Reading Tarot cards.

Meeting people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look sweet and unintimidating.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
South Park, Coupling, Metalocalpyse, Flight of the Conchords, Monty Python, West Wing, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report....does The Onion count towards this? Classic movies. Horribly cheesy movies that one would only normally watch via MST3K (i.e. Santa Claus Conquers the Martians, Flash Gordon, Dune).

I like a lot of dystopian novels, sci fi, humor, poetry, and comic strips.

Calvin and Hobbes, The Little Prince, and To Kill A Mockingbird.
Six things I could never do without
Basically, comes down to:

In a Happy Peasant scenario...
A hot shower.
A western-style toilet.
Toiletries (including conditioner)
A comb.

In the modern world, add...
Cell phone.

...yes, that's eight things. I guess I could maybe give up my phone or laptop. Not both. ...maybe if they had better tablets...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why Things Are The Way They Are. Personality types. Politics. Philosophy. Enterprise gamification (my newest "how to change the world" method). Life, the universe, and everything else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either with family, or relaxing. I rarely do date nights on Fridays....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you don't like family life and kids, I'm probably not a good match for you. Unless you want to be a good friend to each other :) I'm always up for friends (preferably intimate friends, but platonic, too).
You should message me if
You're looking for a girlfriend/partner in crime.

If you're unsure what you want to do in life, feel quirky/strange/a misfit, and are wanting something different in your life.

You're okay that I have other partners, and you would like to meet them (by which I do mean partners, as you would consider a partnership, not shorthand for "dating partner," as I don't care if you meet everyone I am intimate/romantic with, but I would like you to meet those in my life who are important to me, romantic or not.)

Please do not message me if you are entirely non-hierarchical, unless you are seeking a casual friendship. I value loyalty and commitment in any significantly involved relationship.
The two of us