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My self-summary
Hello! I'm back to try this again. I have an off/on relationship with okcupid. I am here because I think it is hard to meet people in Indy, unless you: a) want to meet them in bars; b) want to date someone you work with; c) let your friends set you up (serious story: i once got set up with the same guy by TWO different friends, for two different dates. You would have thought he was my perfect match! Alas, here i am.) I have done all of these things, I no longer do any of them. :) I think you have to be willing to try something different once in a while.
So...a little more about me: I've been told I'm opinionated. :) I don't like monotony. I'm not a 9-5 type person. I enjoy traveling. I also think even just a night away to a neighboring city is a nice little break, and satiates my travel bug a little.

Something else to know about me: in march 2011 I had a major surgery, which totally changed my outlook on life, and also took my ability to have children. I love kids; I work with them at my job everyday. I would love to possibly adopt someday, and I will be down with your kids, as long as they aren't devil's spawn. :) Let's hope that's not the case, as that may negatively reflect on you. And by devil's spawn I mean trying to plot my death or trying to sabotage any relationship not involving their mother. :)

Also, I am a real animal person. Yes, I have pets. They will not be going anywhere. I guess if this doesn't work out i'll just be a cat lady. :) Not to be harsh, but I love my little furry friends. I should be a vegetarian, but I like meat.

Seriously, I'm a pretty easy going person. I like to do all kinds of different things; I love trying new restaurants, and going to exhibits, or random other things.

Important things:

I do not KNOW that I need to be married. I love the idea. I think having a wedding would be awesome.
I like dating. I like having someone to do things with, and that have that person be one specific special person. Why is everyone on here so concerned with what is going to happen in the future?? Why can't we just date and see how it goes?? If you are looking for someone to get married to tomorrow, I am definitely not your girl. I don't like constraints. HOWEVER, I am not looking for a NSA thing. If you have questions about this, just ask! i'm seriously open.

Lastly, my schedule is WHACK. Whack, I say. I work a few jobs (back to that no monotony thing). I do have days off(my schedule is different every week), it's just not always on the weekend, and that's just how I roll.

I swear I am in the wrong city.
Things not to do on a first date with me:
Tell me about your psycho exes (we can get to that later)
Talk about moving in together, and how soon I think that should happen (happened-for serious).
Also, I am all about chatting about people we have met, but I think it is weird to have a lengthy conversation about all the people you have met from online(and how crazy they are). You are going to have to be a better conversationalist to hang with me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am working as a pediatric RN. I am pretty happy with that; it has taken me a while to get here!
It would be nice to meet someone and have a relationship-y type adventure! These things are so crazy to fill out! Hmmm...I garden, I bargain shop, I like kids, I enjoy live music, I try to spend as much time with my nieces as possible, I recycle.
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good at seeing both sides of issues. This can be a hinderance in certain situations, and may come across as wishy-washy. I'm also very good with directions, making messes and googling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my smile, but once you talk to me you will see how sarcastic I am. I'm going to go with sarcasm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do try to read often, but I mostly focus on fiction. Mostly popular fiction. I do like classics, and I do keep up with celebrity gossip (it's just a hobby, people, don't freak out about it-I can read it quickly while I am at work for a short distraction).
I love movies and music! I love documentaries, dramas, and comedies, but I am pretty open to any type (not horror flicks, though). I really like any kind of music. My music collection is pretty random, and is kinda crazy to put on shuffle, but entertaining. I love genius shuffle on itunes! I love, love Bruce Springsteen. If you want more specifics than that, just ask.
The six things I could never do without
Pretty much everyone says the same things on here:
1. My glasses/contacts (yes, I could live without them, but the rest of the list would be irrelevant because I couldn't see anything.)
2. Pets
3. Family
4. Friends
5. Chapstick
6. My sanity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why are some people such jerks? Why does everyone on here want to be married yesterday?
On a typical Friday night I am
Quite possibly at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
According to the personality quiz I took, I am "worse mannered" than most people. HAHAHAHAHAHA WTF??? That is so not true.
You should message me if
You are okay with sarcasm.
I sound at least a little bit funny. You are not super serious, all the time.
You are relaxed and chill, and enjoy just sitting and having a beer (or wine, or whatever) outside sometimes.

I know it sounds like I am anti-relationship-I'm not! I just don't want to rush into something.