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My self-summary
I deactivated my account to give this whole online thing some consideration and thought...

First, I am separated and if that bothers you I understand. If you are married and seeking a 'friend'... I may consider a 'friendship without benefits'.
Secondly, I am too spontaneous and seek joy and not uptight individuals who consider not using spell-check as rude or as a deal breaker. I'm mean...really! LOL!

A self-summary... is not just about what makes one like everyone else but also what makes one different and the blend/dynamics of two. However, it is hard to be objective and there are so many aspects of oneself.
Therefore... I would like to think myself akin to a perfect red wine blend with unique but harmonious flavors...tart, a bit of tanin with a fruity finish. Wouldn't it be nice to leave a good taste with those that happen upon your path. However, each wine, as anything, is personal preference...perhaps I am your type of wine and you mine.....
What I’m doing with my life
I am in the empty nest phase, but in a new career at the same time. I can't believe how much life has gone by, but I know there is quality time on the horizon. I have spend much of my time nurturing others and I am finally learning to nurture myself:)
I’m really good at
Problem solving, reading people (be careful what you write out there) , taking tests, recognizing tastes/spices/items in food as well as cooking. I am equally good at, if not better with being affectionate, and I have no problem receiving it either...
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told I have a warm smile, but I'm sure my quirkiness does not go unnoticed:).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To Kill a Mockingbird and Holographic Universe. I read at 4 years of age, and yet, I hated reading as it was more a job than an adventure. Somebody stifled the joy of reading along the way for me. I like soul, Motown ( generation/location) and Arab/Spanish mix. I also love music with a beat to dance to, and wispy flutes and recorders for dreamy time. And love listening to piano bar music. (Ever wanted to take one of those piano players from Nordstrom's home? [ don't tell anyone but I did]).
Movies I love those with great characters such as Shawshank Redemption, friends falling in love as When Harry Met Sally, Crossing DeLancey for culture in America, quirky like Amalie and fantasies like the Matrix.
I love so many foods such as Moroccan, Middle Eastern, Chinese, Vietnamese and simply foods that have complex definite tastes like spicy, sour and yum, and yet, with balanced harmony. I prefer salty over sweet, veggies over fruits, textures over smooth, spicy over bland, complex over simple, and oh, I'd make a lousy vegetarian and an even worse vegan...
Six things I could never do without
After Maslow's Law
A special someone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and existance interlaced with a vivid imagination and simply go with it in my free time...and also, what I want to be when I grow up....
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out with friends for a drink and dinner or just resting at home after a long week...perhaps a movie with my feet up in front of a fire in the winter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Only you may be surprised... Shhhh...
You should message me if
if you are interested and/or curious after what little bit you see and read about me...
The two of us