I've never been married, no kids & 5'5'', 140 lbs.
For those wanting to delve deeper....
According to Myers-Briggs... I am an INTJ type. And, of the 9 Enneagram Personalities, I am a Type 6 (Loyalist).
I love spending time with my lab/ retriever mix, Nugget and Husky/ lab mix, Bella. We play in the yard alot and watch some tv together when we are ready for relaxing. I love plays, ballet, MUSIC, nature, historical places.
I mean that I LOVE MUSIC.... Blues mostly. BUT, I've NO talent in it. I love the beach, as well as the mountains. I do like to travel.
I am typically the life of the party and I love to laugh, but have a VERY serious and sincere side too. My friends are for life and I have a very close and motley circle of them. My sister & nieces are very important to me and I spend alot of my time with them.
I am ready to chance meeting my bestfriend that will commit to sharing a lifetime together.
I feel I have lots to appreciate and offer, but have yet to meet someone that wanted what I do- friendship, romance, marriage and a life together.
I have had a couple of long term relationships & they failed because I accepted their indecisiveness & clarity on a future together. Lesson Learned & so... I will be clear on what I want as to attract the man who can be & wants to be a part of my life.
I am looking for a warm and sincere man. Someone to do nice things just because. A fifty, fifty relationship. I want to be held, spoiled and appreciated.
But, I need respect for the life I have made myself as I've worked hard for it to be all that it is. I want someone to be by my side and on my side. I want someone who is committed to seeing things through. I want the man who will stand up for himself and for me.
I do not want someone with great hang ups and insecurites from a past relationship experience. I want a man who is not afraid of honesty, committment and love. And, who will continue to keep it all "alive" and not get lazy. Importantly, I want a best friend who will be honest and not fear sharing his feelings, dreams and needs. Communication is a must!!! And MONOGAMY is a MUST!
OF COURSE, I want someone that want these same things from me. I'm not expecting to receive anything more than I'm willing to give of myself!
I want to share travel, plays, movies, massages, candles, music and laughter with someone who enjoys these things as much as I do. I am satisfied with myself and my life, but it would just be so much more with the right man to accentuate it!!!
You should contact me if you ARE looking for LONG-TERM TO MARRIAGE relationship, have clarity & confidence in the quality of man & life you live and are emotionally and physically available. I am clear on who & what I want to attract. Casual sex encounters, game playing or previous relationship baggage are not welcomed or wanted here. I'd like to meet that special someone to share a life with. Someone loving, devoted, loyal, honest that do what they say and say what they mean. Kids and animals are warmly welcomed.
SOME MUSICIAN FAVES: Ray Charles,Stevie Nicks,Dave Matthews Band,Stevie Ray Vaughan,Anything Acoustic,The Eagles,BB King,John Lee Hooker,Government Mule,Keb' Mo',Widespread Panic,ZZ Top,Corey Smith,Joan Osborne,John Mayer,Jack Johnson,Hem,Jason Mraz,Coldplay,Nina Simone,Dr. John,Cheryl Crow,Indigo Girls,Melissa Etheridge,Joan Baez,Susan Tedeschi,The Rolling Stones,Bonnie Raitt,Lynard Skynard,Phish,The Doors,Barry White,Allman Brothers,Lyle Lovett,Fleetwood Mac,Reba McEntire,Sinéad O'Connor,The Cult,The Derek Trucks Band,Garth Brooks,James Brown,Joe Bonamassa,Guns N' Roses,Edwin McCain,Sheryl Crow,U2,Ani DiFranco,R.E.M.,Etta James,Roxy Music,Enigma,Willie Nelson,Janis Joplin,Keith Whitley,Jimmy Buffett,Jimmy Page,Bob Marley,Bob Dylan,Alternative rock,Blues,Jazz,Classic rock,Progressive rock,Elton John
MOVIES: Forrest Gump, Bridget Jones' Diary ,Harlem Nights,The Green Mile,Somewhere in Time,Big Fish,The Big Chill,The Horse Whisperer,Shawshank Redemption,Life,The Nutty Professor and anything based on true story or historical.
TV SHOWS: How I Met Your Mother, Two and a Half Men, Cougar Town, Sons of Anarchy,Breaking Bad, True Blood,Boardwalk Empire, True Detective, Salem, Penny Dreadful, Game of Thrones, Modern Marvels, Gas Monkey Garage, MadMen.