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My self-summary
World traveler, healer, swing dancer.

Excellent communication. Large bandwidth for introspection (yours and mine), discussing feelings and insights, and supporting my friends and loves in stepping into their dreams.

Polyamorous since 2012. I love deep connections with people who know themselves, and I'm looking for lasting relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm passionate about both science and energy healing. Science advances through anomalies, and discovering how energy healing works would impact everything from physics to biology. I'm starting Healing Lab, devoted to the scientific exploration of energy healing, to help make that happen.

Also, robbing banks. That sounds at least twice as awesome as "security consultant," right? It supports me while I start Healing Lab. And the travel is fun -- Melbourne, Hyderabad, Singapore, more. I enjoy connecting with well-traveled people.
I’m really good at
Kind, honest communication.

There are two types of honesty: Saying what's on your mind in the moment, and figuring out how to express yourself in a way your listener can take in, hearing your intent instead of reacting to a poorly-chosen word. No one can achieve that second type of honesty all the time, but it's always my goal.

And a friend says: Staying calm, holding space, and only then finding a solution.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm currently reading a book on the origins and money and debt, and how each grew from the other. Before that I read about how cooking influenced human evolution. Seeing the connections in the world fascinates me.
Six things I could never do without
My curiosity. My ability to connect and spread ideas through language. My drive to create things that help people.

And inspired by the literalists saying food, water, and gravity: The strong nuclear force. Because where would we be without it? Free-floating protons and neutrons, that's where.
You should message me if
You're great at communication, brilliant, geeky, and otherwise awesome.

Not sure what to say? Tell me about something you did recently that you loved.
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