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My self-summary
A simple man, still refuse to give up on the hope of finding true love. A family man who loves children, as attested by my popularity among my nephews and nieces, and even their friends. I still believe in the notion of living out the rest of my life only with my soulmate/best friend and I WILL not settle for less.

I was divorced 10 years ago, but fortunately, no children. I would someday like to have my own children but that is only with the right person. If she does not want children, then so be it as I always believe both parties in a relationship or marriage must buy into the idea so as to make it work.

I am naturally a caring person, always ready to listen if you wanna talk, even when my favourite sports team is playing on tv. I insist on communication and I believe in knowing and understanding my partner well. However, if you want my opinion, you have to ask for it. I am naturally intuitive due to my nature and work experience, so it gets a little creepy sometimes when i can suddenly anticipate what u want.
What I’m doing with my life
I am presently stuck in a professional dilemma. Stability or huge challenge? A happy problem no doubt, but a problem nonetheless. A problem complicated by the fact that I m ready to settle down. bad timing or all my good karma coming back to me all at once? these r exciting times for me, for my family and also possibly for the family i want so much to call my own.

Now keeping myself busy with swimming, running and basketball. I read a lot more now, more so to appreciate the different styles of writing more than the story itself. And I still go to the movies, even when i am all alone.

Busy preparing to get married this month to a classy lady I met here in OkCupid. This site works, for it makes us reveal much about ourselves. I guess being true to myself here has its benefits.
I’m really good at
expressing myself through words, be it through writing or speaking up. words rarely fail me and I get my point across.

being the clown to spice up the mood when at play and the no-nonsense colleague when at work. I pride myself being a good actor too, able to keep up appearances until people think I am forever happy-go-lucky.

being considerate too. I would willingly sacrifice my "me-time" just to help my partner out or just to accompany her. If she has the guts to commit fully to me, I would slaughter the whole world just to get to her.

keeping eeriely quiet and not blinking during remuneration negotiations.

getting the best out of the wait staff. :)

oh, and my seafood linguine.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I am very professional and very stern.

I am professional and I look stern when I m concentrating on my work. However, in real life, I am anything but stern or unfriendly.

I look younger than my age. :(
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
favourite books: jasper fforde, fantasy novels, jane austen, william blake, conspiracy theories, jane green. I read vastly, from classics to trashy novels.

movies: I love going to the movies, all genre.

music: more towards 80s retro.

food: I eat anything and I am adventurous.
Six things I could never do without
1. the powerpuff girls.

2. my family. the zhuang xue zhong wannabe, the mahjong queen, the lance armstrong, the angelina, the "i'm still jordanary", the pig, the ah lian, ah huay, vacuum cleaner power ranger, the she-she girl, the "who's the lousiest" spiderman and the greedy killer smile, the whole lot!!!

3. my principles. If it isn't right ethically, there is no way you can get me to do it.

4. my brothers and a few true friends.

5. my love for sports. I dont feel comfortable if I dont sweat these days.

6. my novel n my reading glasses, curse of having perfect eyesight when i was young.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the meaning of life previously. now, i fantasise about the wonderful life we would have together.

and how to be a better person these days, in preparation for my last relationship. and how my professional decision should incorporate the considerations of having my own family in the very near future.

and how on earth does OK Cupid decide that i m wealthier than average? lol... not very accurate, actually.
On a typical Friday night I am
going out for dinner, movies, chill out, staying home, cuddle n chat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I snore when I am too tired, i dig my nose when no one is looking and I am secretly excited when going shopping with my gf.
You should message me if
if you wanna chat online.

And no, I am not interested in casual sex, not that i can get them.
The two of us