33San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
Southern California native trying to stake a claim in life. Quality over Quantity. Experiences over Things. Live life with a careful balance of no regrets without collecting unmanageable baggage. Scars are unavoidable, it's how they're managed that is important.
What I’m doing with my life
I do accounting consulting as a manager. I make my own hours for the most part and get to keep a healthy work-life balance.

I'm going to throw this in here so as to save the hassle of wasted efforts/time: I want kids. My life will still be a good one if I don't end up having any but if you dislike kids or have no interest in having any, I'm not the person for you.
I’m really good at
I can sleep anywhere. I also pick up sports relatively quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, my hair.

I've been told I come across as shy, but I'm not. I people watch and figure them out first. Or sometimes I just don't like you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Jane Eyre (favorite book since 8th grade)
-Ender's Game (favorite book since college)

And everything in between. Sometimes I just want to read something that'll take my brain somewhere else for a while.

I like a lot of different styles. I'm equally at home with a beer at a Country concert, in a pit getting sweated on while Rancid or Tiger Army play, or attending a symphony/orchestra/Opera. I'm in a bit of a music funk right now and could use suggestions.

Pretty much everything but seafood since I wasn't raised on it. I'll eat Hamachi and Ahi but I'm still developing a palate for most of it. I don't eat a lot of meat although sometimes all I want in life is a steak.
I'll gladly trade all my mushrooms and olives for your onions

I tend towards SciFi/Fantasy such as The Fifth Element or Firefly. And of course Adventure Time because it is brilliant. I don't watch a lot of TV though.
Six things I could never do without
Laughter, friends & family, my nalgene (i carry it everywhere), a hairtie, slippas, and a book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Am I being the best version of myself? Am I being authentic?
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking a beer after a run.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm quicker to speak up for someone else than I am for myself
You should message me if
If you can hold silly conversations as well as serious conversations. A sense of humor is important to me but it's imperative to know when is the time for silly and when is the time for serious. I prefer to surround myself with people who speak honestly and follow through on their words. If you have strength of character, I would enjoy speaking with you.
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