I am an active and "successful" guy with a great bunch of friends, buddies and network of peers in my work, who keep me busy and happy. I am on OK Cupid to meet some interesting people who I usually don't see out and about (or maybe I do see you but we never connected). I really don't have an agenda and have no expectations except maybe meet some interesting people and have some good times, on the way to meeting someone that might turn into something more substantial.
I'm very active. I play in the Gay Flag Football League and have bowled and played dodgeball as well. Played sports (football, wrestling, crew and track in field) throughout school and even played intramural basketball in grad school but am a hack on the courts. I love to ski. Love the outdoors, hiking, kayaking etc. I travel a lot and have been to every continent except Australia and Antarctica. I plan on going to Antarctica in the next 5 years before global warming makes its impact.
While I love the outdoors and sports, I also love the city life. Theater, art, museums, street fairs, dancing, parties. While I live in Manhattan, I appreciate Brooklyn the Brooklyn scene and definitely not a borough phone. I love to cook, eat and walk down the street with food in my mouth.
Far from a prude and the physical aspects of life and love are really important to me. Have you read "The Ethical Slut"? That said, I am a relationship, romantic and faithful guy when I find the one. I mean I am Greek.
I like to combine hard work, my career, fun, sports and friends/family. I have a great network of people in my life and love to have them over for dinner and drinks, see them on the weekend and evenings, and vacation with them. My friends and family are very important to me.
Good friends and family over for dinner and drinks and quality time.
Connection to the larger struggle for social, racial and economic justice.
Hot sex, intimacy and both combined.
Laughing at myself and the world.
Diversity of cultures, food, races and ethnicities (i.e. why I love NYC, London, LA etc.)