UPDATE: I am reading a book that I would like to recommend to the ladies out there. Someone suggested that I read it even though it is geared toward women. It is called "Marry Him" by Lori Gottlieb. I have to tell ya, there is a lot of truth to what she is saying and I wish I had read it in my 20s. We were all waiting for that perfect person to walk through the door as we dated and turned down people because of things that didn't fit in our list. The book has been enlightening and has made me rethink that "list". I highly recommend it and if you have read it, I would love to know your thoughts
If you are not going to be okay with a nice guy that doesn't drink, please let me know upfront. I am not here to judge anyone, drinking is just something that I choose not to do. It doesn't bother me at all that others drink, just not my thing.
I am just looking for a girl who "gets it". Someone who understands that it's not always about what clothes you wear, what car you drive, how many parties you go to. When we are all 80 years old, will we even remember that stuff or will we want to remember our friends and the good times we had with them and our family?? Dallas is a superficial place and I'd love to find someone who isn't buying into it all.
I am a nice guy, looking for a nice girl. Are you a flexible giver? Do you enjoy doing fun things like seeing movies, going to concerts, traveling, going to plays and getting little surprises? I enjoy being with someone who is smart, confident, independent and fun. Would going to Trader Joes on a Saturday night be fun to you?