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My self-summary
What I love most about life are the unexpected surprises that happen to you. Those things that occur that bring you down a path to where you are now.

When I look back at my life so far I see the winding road and think it has been pretty great so far. It has lead me through great times, like attending university, working with my family for a good part of my life, spending summers on the beaches of Sicily, and meeting all kinds of wonderful people who became friends, lovers and new family. It has also lead through tougher times like divorce and cancer but I have come out a better person because of it all.

Now I'm on a path to find a person who also is on his winding path that is willing to share his road with me and want me to share mine with him. Wherever that may lead.
What I’m doing with my life
I work too much. Who doesn't in New York City? I am a GM in a restaurant in Flatiron. Keeps me busy but I do enjoy it. Even when I complain.

I also make time to go to take care of myself and spend time with my family. My family is so amazing! They have been there for me through thick and thin. I visit them often. We are friends besides family.

I love museums and exploring new restaurants. I like activities that are physical. Bike riding and swimming are some of my favorites. Right along with dancing. I'm a curious soul so I like to explore and ask questions.
I’m really good at
Bossing people around....(natural born leader. I have the nursery school report to prove it!)

I'm good at making people feel comfortable around me. I am very friendly so I like to make people feel at ease.

Convincing people to do things they want to do but don't think they should.

Recently, aerial fitness! I really love to hang upside down.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm short? Incredibly sexy? I sometimes wear glasses? Most people think I'm rather witty and sarcastic.....the ones who don't are obviously stupid.

I think I have really nice teeth too. Have you checked out my award-winning smile yet!?!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Art is what makes life worth living. I love to find the beauty in all parts of the world. I read or more accurately listen to books. I ready fantasy and fiction, self help, autobiographies, you name it. Reading is a big part of life. I'm currently obsessed with the graphic novel Saga. If you haven't read it you just don't know what you are missing.

I love museums, movies and music. (Does anyone actually say they don't like music?)
Six things I could never do without
Granted these aren't things you can buy...but they are the most important and most precious to me.

Great Friends
Awesome Sex
My intuition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can make myself a better person, learning from my mistakes ( I make WAY too many), and if only if I could come up with a sarcasm font. I would be a millionaire and the coolest person on the planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
I find it easier to answer what I'm not doing on a typical Friday. So here's my list of what I am NOT doing on a typical Friday night :

-stealing government secrets for the Russians....or AM I????
-washing my hair. If I give you that excuse, I just don't want to meet you. Sorry.
-snap chatting. I have NO idea how to work that damn thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really love 80's music.

I like a Justin Bieber song. Can't believe I just admitted that....
You should message me if
I'm a simple woman. I only ask that you have a face picture I can see on your profile.

You live in New York...or at least relatively close by. I have no issues with Ohio, Pennsylvania or Canada...but I would rather not travel 3 hours to have a cup of coffee.

I am such a social creature! I need interaction so if you send me a message that reads "hey." I don't really know what to do with that other than ignore it. Please actually have something to say. Please! ...and for the love of God....know how to have a conversation!

You can refrain from sending me a photo of your penis until at least after we have a date. Especially if your penis is particularly underwhelming.

You have the ability to write me a message that has at least one or more coherent sentences using actual words. Like "are" and "you". Not "R" or "U". Kind of a personal pet peeve and frankly a turn off.

You want to have a real relationship with someone.
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