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My self-summary
My wife is Deiana on here.

Thoughts while taking Metro home:

So this is what being a 'young professional' feels like?

Why is it so hard to schedule my next D&D game?

Being non-monogamous can be the best of single life and being in a committed relationship; getting to meet and date new people, and have constant companion to come home to and explore the world with.

Being non-monogamous the worst of both; the rollercoaster of hope and rejection the is today's dating scene, and the frustrations inherent to living with, and taking into consideration the wants and needs of another person.

Trying to text while on the local Metro bus is a recipe for car sickness.

Why isn't the next video game I'm planning to obsess over our yet?!

Why can I never catch up on my podcasts and audiobooks?

Should I practice my German some more, or continue to be lazy? I still have a year before my big trip over there...

Anyways, feel free to ask me anything.
What I’m doing with my life
According to:
I Am A: Neutral Good Human Wizard (4th Level)

Ability Scores:







Neutral Good A neutral good character does the best that a good person can do. He is devoted to helping others. He works with kings and magistrates but does not feel beholden to them. Neutral good is the best alignment you can be because it means doing what is good without bias for or against order. However, neutral good can be a dangerous alignment when it advances mediocrity by limiting the actions of the truly capable.

Humans are the most adaptable of the common races. Short generations and a penchant for migration and conquest have made them physically diverse as well. Humans are often unorthodox in their dress, sporting unusual hairstyles, fanciful clothes, tattoos, and the like.

Wizards are arcane spellcasters who depend on intensive study to create their magic. To wizards, magic is not a talent but a difficult, rewarding art. When they are prepared for battle, wizards can use their spells to devastating effect. When caught by surprise, they are vulnerable. The wizard's strength is her spells, everything else is secondary. She learns new spells as she experiments and grows in experience, and she can also learn them from other wizards. In addition, over time a wizard learns to manipulate her spells so they go farther, work better, or are improved in some other way. A wizard can call a familiar- a small, magical, animal companion that serves her. With a high Intelligence, wizards are capable of casting very high levels of spells.


Pounding away day to day to advance in my career.

I'm gaming my way to happiness. CivVI and Fallout 4 on my free time. D&D (or some other TRPG) when I'm hanging out with my friends. (I just picked up the Cypher System core rule book, am very excited to try it out😁)

And when I need some me time away from my computer, I like to take my DSLR around town to see if I can capture the perfect photo. Or I will queue up my ever growing list of must see binge TV, and paint minis for D&D.
I’m really good at
Solving circuits, arguing, photography, playing cello :-) , skepticism, and loading a bowl of shisha.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hat. I (almost) always am wearing a cool/funky hat; either a derby, a cavalier, or a top hat!

Edit, 10/12/14
I haven't been wearing my hats as much lately, stupid corporate dress codes, so I've started keeping up an awesome beard instead!

Edit, 12/01/15
Apparently my hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter, 1632, His Dark Materials, Robert Conroy, Stephen Hunt, Naomi Novik, Douglas Adams... Also World War Z, the book, is amazingness - the best zombie apocalypse scenario I've yet experienced.

Tv Shows: Firefly (Why yes, my coat is a sort of brownish colour, why do you ask?), Doctor Who, Buffy/Angel, Dollhouse, Game of Thrones, Dead Like Me, Mad Men, Mythbusters...

Movies: Serenity, Repo! the Genetic Opera, the Hudsucker Proxy, Lola Rennt!, Pan's Labyrinth, the Labyrinth, V for Vendetta...

Music: My top pandora stations are 'Deadmau5', 'Mumford & Sons', 'Skyrim', & 'Fallout 3'. I also have recently really gotten into 'Electro-Swing'.

Food: Falafel, Gyros, Beef Schwarma, Wiener Schnitzel, Spätzel, Eiskänder Kebab
Six things I could never do without


duct tape



I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I'm going to unleash on my players next in my Curse of Strahd campaign.

What I would do as omnipotent dictator of the globe.

What board game and/or tech gadget I want to purchase next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing in or running a tabletop RPG.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once ran into incoming traffic to save my hat after it was blown off by a gust of wind.
You should message me if
You're also poly.
The two of us