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My self-summary
We are a COUPLE, here looking for COUPLES. That's what we mean. Seriously. (No, guys - no matter how cool/interesting you are, we just aren't interested. NO.)

OKC hasn't allowed us to check that, to tell you that in the part above, but it's true. Really.

We're happily married (for more than a decade), love sex with each other and with others. Since we started fooling around next to, and with, other couples, we've found that our romantic and sex lives have improved dramatically. We're game for most anything, ranging from dating another couple - to much more bodily "swinging." We like and have fun with each/both. We think of ourselves as monogamish, not polyamorous. We're secure in our relationship. He's straight; she's mostly straight but she likes to fool around with cute girls.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, it seems, we're seeking other people to do in our lives. But seriously, folks: we're professionals, with too many degrees, working hard, with demanding work and family existences.
I’m really good at
... yup. Yup we are.
The first things people usually notice about me
How funny we are? How smart? How hot? We don't know. You tell us.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
We've been reading Anna Karenina to one another at bedtime for about two years now. We're something like a third of the way through.

We really liked "A Separation" recently.

We like most music (though T likes Robyn Hitchcock, which N thinks is excluded from the category).

We eat most anything.
Six things I could never do without
Each other.
Our kid.
Our family.
Stephen Colbert
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the world better. How great the world already is. How the world is made badly.
On a typical Friday night I am
In. Saturday is a more likely to be an interesting night to ask about....
You should message me if
... if you're a COUPLE, interested in meeting another COUPLE.

(What's more, if you're a guy, a single guy, a married guy on the sly, or whatever - if there's only ONE of you? Then PLEASE don't message us. We. Are. Not. Interested. And we will receive indications of interest from single men as hostile statements of disregard for our profile.)

If you're fun, smart, funny, hot.

If you communicate well - with one another and with us.

If we'll enjoy the drinks we have with you as much as we'll enjoy the rest of the time we spend together.

[Evidently, we have to add this: if you are genuinely hopeful we'll respond, please write something - anything - that indicates that you have read this profile and understand who we are, what we're looking for.]
The two of us