The rest of my time, generally, is at the gym. I do MMA in town, and am slowly getting better at jits. I find MMA people a lot friendlier than the other arts I've done, and even losing is a pretty good time.
I'm expansive, curious, disputatious, and confident. I like to think I have a good sense of humor, my Teutonic background notwithstanding, and I enjoy a broad competence in other people and in myself.
I'm also married. We see other people, she has her own profile on here, and so on. Honesty is our byword, and really we're both looking to date other grown-ups. Scandalous secret affairs are for teenagers, and one of the great things about being an adult is that you can have all sorts of awesome relationships with all sorts of people, as long as they're adults too.
I'm also pretty damn good at lifting weights, and increasingly good at BJJ.
Gets a little weird with music. KMFDM, other industrial stuff, third-wave ska, and a scattering of other stuff. Listening to a lot of Dragonette right now, which reminds me of my wife.
Also plus twenty points if you work in neuroscience. I've come to admit that it's a huge draw for me, odd as it sounds.