25 Grosse Pointe, United States
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My self-summary
Hey, I'm Harper. I'm a bit shy at first, but get me talking about one of my interests and good luck getting me to shut up. I'm a casual kind of person, and while I'm no social butterfly, I love getting to know people better. My sense of humor tends to be a bit dark, fair warning. Racist or sexist jokes are a sure fire way to make me block you though. I'm a creative type, and love to have someone I can relate to in that respect. It'd be a bonus if that person also loved video games, nature, and animated films like I do, haha. I have a pet cat named Furiousa, and two Snow Corn snakes, Adelind and Ormr.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm current taking a year off of pursuing my Bachelor of Fine Arts with a dual concentration in Electronic Arts and Painting. Instead, I'm working at a local non profit, which I love. Also currently reassessing some life goals.
I’m really good at
reaching out to people and being a empathetic ear. I'm not a bad artist, and I can cook fairly well. I also get along with just about any animal. I might even prefer their company over humans. I'm excellent with kids, even though I'm not the maternal type.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'll have to ask someone sometime. It's probably my weight. I'm on the heavier side, and while I am making some lifestyle changes, it's part of who I am right now. I may not be happy with it, but I also don't want to date anyone who'd value me by my physical appearance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It always makes me uneasy to list off things like this, because I'm afraid I'll miss something. And this is just the tip of the iceberg, as far as my interests, but I enjoy Walking Dead (The comics/game, not the show.), Fight Club , The Office, X-Files, Parks and Recreation, the Bioshock series (Infinite is still tearing me apart), Skyrim, Dragon Age, pretty much any Valve game, Portal and Half Life being some favorites, Disney animated films, Firefly, White Stripes, The Heavy, Studio Killers, Gnarls Barkley, Queen, The Black Keys, Decemberists, Death Cab for Cutie, Dionysos, Frank Sinatra, Gorillaz... I could keep going...
The six things I could never do without
Besides the essentials of living (water/shelter/etc.)? My computer, a wifi connection, pets, my music collection, and a pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whatever game/story/series I'm into at the time.

I have a terrible addiction to drawing fan art.
On a typical Friday night I am
On my computer gaming with friends or curled up with one or more of my pets while I read.

I don't mind going out for drinks and live music now and again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've never had sex. I'd been holding off for personal reasons (not religious), and now I'm a little gun-shy of the whole situation.

I mention this because I think its a fairly large roadblock in getting somewhere with a more intimate relationship, and I'd like us both to be on the same page.
You should message me if
we share similar interests, or you think we might click. Whatever you're looking for, I'd love to get to know you.