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My self-summary
"Waffles are pancakes with abs to hold deliciousness." - Me

Most people judge a book by it's cover, but I'm more of a read and review girl. Just because I'm fluffy and feline like does not make me any less of a person. It just means I have layers to discover. You could also say I recovered my muchness. Could say I am a bit of a goof.

For those interested I'm considered an INFJ OR ENFJ it literally sits at 51/49 in either direction whenever I take the test.

I am here for a variety of reasons like friends and penpals. If it develops to something more then awesome! Though to be fair because I tend to do long term I'm not used to the dating scene. So if I get flustered it's just my thing.

I have a fat cat, and pretty snake and an affinity for music, and life to take it's course. I admit that I'm a bit of a cuddlewhore and can sometimes be a bit off my rocker sometimes but I aim to please my partner if possible. Which can get me into trouble but I swear I don't bite! (Though biting me is optional).

If you haven't figured it out yet I'm a pretty left wing individual (and I definitely feel the Bern,) - also I'm the oldest of 3, my siblings are in the tail end of high school, with one being of the LGBTQ community. If that bothers you *or* you support NC's HB2 bill please refrain from messaging me.

I recently ended a relationship where I was used as an ATM rather than a girlfriend. So! With that being said I'm only seeking those who are financially stable enough to take care of themselves without me.

Also I'm not on Kik. So don't bother asking.
What I’m doing with my life
Working for the power company and taking life a day at a time on the hunt to find someone to share that adventure with!
I’m really good at
Making people happy, there is never a dull moment when I'm around. Life is an adventure and one should live for it!

On that same hand, I'm also really good at listening and giving people advice. At least that is what I have been told.

Cooking - and my baking experiments get five out of 4 stars. At least this is what one of my friends said.

Writing, and setting the scene with vivid imagery.

Being myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm short. I've actually had people run into me. I have been told I have an adorable voice. Other than that? My personality.

I also sound like Bernadette from The Big Bang Theory.

Remember - big things come in small packages.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dark fantasy, Mystery, Romance...normally things that have a good strong Heroine. No not the drug you idgits.

Movies: Dead Poet's Society, The Crow, Secretary, The Princess Bride, LoTR, Stranger than Fiction, Amadeus, Death Race, Equilibrium, Cruel Intentions, Hobbit, Despicable Me series, How to Train Your Dragon, Avengers franchise, PotC, Musicals...like Sweeney Todd, Les Mis, West Side Story.

Music: Symphonic metal, Gothic Metal, Alternative Rock, Rock, Metal, Female-fronted bands, Industrial

Food is delicious. Not a picky eater x3
The six things I could never do without
1. Oxygen - I think this is fairly important
2. Friends - for without them I would be a miserable person without humor
3. Laughter - for Laughter makes life better
4. Imagination - When in doubt, believe in something
5. Car - If I don't have 4 wheels beneath me and a purr of an engine...the world might end.
6. Hope - because even if it does nothing else but lead to disappointment its the fact there is some light in the darkness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about

What? Oh you mean what do I spend time thinking about. Well normally it's money, or work, or how do I do this or that for the car. Keeping on top of my friends antics. Anything a-typical for any 27 year old female about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either one of two places: Home, Not home. Simple enough. However the 'Not home' is usually getting coffee and grabbing a new book or just going out and having fun.

If you're a night owl like me why not ask?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been diagnosed with OCD and depression which will require me to be on medication the rest of my life. Thanks to medication I can live a normal (define normal?) life.
You should message me if
If you can understand my non human babies came before you and that they are not going anywhere. My cat hates almost all people and can be aggressive in some cases so don't be offended if she doesn't like you that's just how she is. Also don't be fooled she may act all sweet but it's all a trick. Snakes have a common misconception and all mine wants to do is explore and cuddle.

If you can handle a healthy dose of sarcasm and humor with a mix of good nature.

If you are willing to go through a possibly horrid first meeting simply based on the shy factor.

If the fact that I'm not a Christian doesn't bother you.

If you like coffee, and home-baked sweets.

If you can tolerate knowing that I'm an independent person and there is a day or two in a blue moon that I want a day to myself/friends.

If you don't mind the insane amount of pirate/skull related items I collect.

If you like snakes, fish or cats ;3

If you are a kinkster in a sort of way because hey more fun for everybody!