Seeing the world in shades of gray.
I think that most things are fluid, not black and white, from politics to personalities to sexualities to genders and just about everything. Most things are on a spectrum.
Monogam-ish. Poly. Open.
Normal is an illusion. What is normal to the spider is chaos to the fly.
Enjoying each day. Today is the youngest you'll ever be, right?
Recently ran the NYC marathon, now back to basketball.
Continuing the adventure that is living in New York, with a few trips each year.
Recent travels in the past few years include San Fran, Savannah, GA, Las Vegas, Death Valley, Grand Canyon, Seattle/Portland/Spokane and Northern Idaho, Erie/Buffalo/Niagara Falls, Memphis, Montreal, and New Orleans. Dublin and Belfast.
Doing business consulting now, education in the future, and all sorts of other things in between and along the way. Life has more than one act.
I've got a great sense of direction. Whether it's in NYC, or some other random place, I find my way around pretty well, map or no map.
Connecting with people.
Remembering interesting/obscure facts and stories. Sometimes interesting, sometimes useless.
Know anything about Myers Briggs? I'm a believer. And an ENFP, with a strong N.
Music: A little bit of everything...Billy Joel, Jay Z, Lady Gaga, Kanye West, U2, Bruce Springsteen, OAR, 80' music.
I've started going to traditional Irish music sessions in NYC which is a great time.
Also a fan of NPR.
What the next adventure is. Where the next travel destination could be.
Monogamish relationships. Ethical Non-Monogamy. Open relationships.
The meaning of certain words. Words are symbols that represent different meanings, and if one word can have 25 different meanings to 25 different people it can be tricky! For example, the word queer.
What life will be like in 5 years.
Then sometimes there are costume/kinky/fetish party friends. Think sexy and fun at upscale NYC venues. Some of the costumes and outfits are amazing. It's like burlesque, but better, and anyone can dress up a bit. I've been told my legs aren't bad in fishnets but I don't know about that.
I'm pretty well rounded. I fit a little bit into every box, but not completely in any box. And I love that.
Funny story and more comfortable than expected. : P
You think we'd connect well and have some chemistry.
And if you like good conversation.
The word heteroflexible doesn't bother you.