38Sembawang Estate, Singapore
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
First, I don't understand the logic behind common dating practices. Many people seem to fall into relationships based on lust, not any qualities that maintain an extended or prolonged relationship. We're apparently taught to choose mates based on traits and qualities completely unrelated to longterm fulfillment and stability.

Now, whatever the opposite of a "playboy" is... that's me. Completely incapable of seeing when women flirt with me. Basically, I suspect that I'm on the autism spectrum when it comes to this. But I am extremely honest. Can also balance a checkbook and plan a trip around the world but I may as well be a coatrack in a dance club.

I've visited around 50 countries and independent territories (plus 2 occupied territories that should be independent). Favorite thing to do on a nice weekend... motorcycle ride to a city I've never seen. I've only seen two movies that were better than the books they're based on. I *HATE* watching sports. Can't think of a bigger waste of time than seeing people running up, down, or around a field.



P.S. Please put something in your "most private thing" field. Anything. If the most private thing you can admit is loving tofurkey, then please put that down! Tell us that you ate a spider once. Talk about your love for Bollywood music videos. Admit that you cheated on a test. The key words are "willing to admit".
What I’m doing with my life
Saving for a trip into space. Until then, I'm exploring the planet that I'm stuck on.
I’m really good at
...finding solutions to problems. I'm even better at figuring out when there's not really a problem at all.
The first things people usually notice about me
My lack of a Japanese accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Cherry Blossoms
25th Hour
Fight Club
The Shawshank Redemption
Voices of a Distant Star
The God Who Wasn't There
Spirited Away
Seeking a Friend for the End of the World
Memories of Matsuko (嫌われ松子の一生)
Blue Valentine
Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
Bad Santa
Holy Man
Seven Pounds
The Usual Suspects
American History X
I Love You Phillip Morris
Gran Torino
The Day the Earth Stood Still
American Beauty
Across the Universe

An Idiot Abroad
Mystery Science Theater 3000
Invader Zim
Last Week Tonight
Full Frontal
The IT Crowd
One Piece
Now and Then, Here and There (今、そこにいる僕)
Harvey Birdman Attorney at Law
The Tick (animated)

Scarred Lands - Dead God Trilogy
any book by Bill Bryson
Last Chance to See by Douglas Adams
The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth by R. Buckminster Fuller
The Charwoman's Shadow by Lord Dunsany
The Road by Cormac McCarthy

Tom Lehrer
Jonathan Coulton
Tim Minchin

Deep Dish Pizza
Granny Smith Apples
Kung-pao Chicken Noodles
Bread 'n butter from Outback Steakhouse
Six things I could never do without
...and quiet time every now and then.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...why homo sapiens sapiens require a mating dance.
On a typical Friday night I am
...trying to find fun people looking to trade life stories.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There are two movies and a single episode of an anime that will make me cry every time I watch them. If we get to hang out I might tell you what they are and why.
You should message me if
...you can admit that women check out guys, even if they're in a relationship. If a woman says she doesn't look at other guys then I have to assume she's asexual or lying.

...you've given up on "true love". If you've realized that there are probably several thousand very good matches, but no "perfect person" that you're destined to meet. If you value trust and communication more than that feeling of lust (that most people mistake for love).

...you think jealousy is unhealthy in a relationship.

...you agree that a wedding ring doesn't need a diamond or to cost more than US$1000.

Please move along if you're a princess who needs a manservant to pamper her. I'm looking to share my life, not sacrifice it to somebody that doesn't appreciate others.
The two of us