Pixar, Last Air Bender, Mean Girls (of course), Miyazaki films, Adventure Time, Steven Universe, Sherlock, Wes Anderson movies, The Elegance of the Hedgehog, Drag Race sometimes. Grew up as one of those Sailor Moon/Pokemon/Dragon Ball gay dorks.
Music : Newfie folk trash (Lisa Leblanc) to British pop synth (AlunaGeorge)! Kind of all over the place music wise. By the way, if you can play an instrument, I'll find you at least 2 points sexier on a 1 to 10 scale. Unless it's the tuba.
But really, I don't know the answer to this! I've had it work out with people who are shy introverted video game lovers and others who are party socialites. Ideally you're relatively fit (no need for gorilla muscles) and enjoy the outdoors (if you're not I'll make you see nature in a new way and if that doesn't work then I'll buy you a ticket to Toronto) but otherwise, who knows how it could work.