47Citrus Heights, United States
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My self-summary
Well what to say... I am just your typical nice guy, that thinks very analytically and is a hopeless romantic. I am trying to figure out why romantic people tend to pick non romantics?? I like to show my affection (with occasional slaps on the bum or a harmless grope, usually followed with a playfully beaming smile). I can be a little shy at first though I am not really a shy person. I am very open minded about many things (very non judgmental of others), including most social issues as well as in the bedroom.. So I do like women who tend to be more on the fun loving and kinky side as well. I am open and honest.. If you ask, I will answer about any question. I mean we are trying to find a connection, because when you have that great connection, that is when the fireworks go off.. So I am just going to be myself and see if we hit it off. So I am not here to play games. Though I have always been more of a relationship person, I am coming off of a long relationship (and recently separated), so my frame of mind is not to rush into another (Though I don't discount the possibility if I find that right person). I am a man of integrity in that I do what I say that I am going to do. I am confident and have a secure sense of self, though I am not cocky or arrogant. I am secure enough to use self deprecative humor at times, to try and get a smile. Though I tend to be harder on myself than others. I have been finding that I enjoy writing a bit (usually about fantasies, etc..) as an outlet of my romanticism. It can also give an insight into the way that I think.
Well I will get off my soapbox.. Let me know if you have any questions, I am happy to answer!
What I’m doing with my life
Well my life can be busy.. Other than the mundane working many hours to provide and live. I am active in playing ice hockey 2 to 3 days a week, and doing stuff with or for my 2 kids (11 yr old boy/girl twins). I love family and being a Dad. I am actively trying to improve my life and do the best I can. I gave up my biggest vice (soda) 2 years ago as a resolution, and each year I have added more things to help me be a better and healthier me.
I’m really good at
being me and living life.. I haven't failed at either of those two things yet!! This is a subjective question.. But I feel I am pretty good at most things that I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well I really haven't a clue.. My interpretation would be my smile, eyes and broad shoulders..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I haven't been a big book reader in my life, though I have been reading or listening to fantasy novels of late.

Movies- Well who has just a single movie they like.. I tend to enjoy all types of movies though I admit I don't watch much horror. As it usually isn't all that well written.
The Comedies that stand out to me without over thinking it would be (And who doesn't like to laugh): Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Blazing Saddles, Tommy Boy, Billy Madison, Dumb and Dumber, Blues Brothers, Big Trouble in Little China to name a few.. As you can see a variety from dry humor, to Physical Comedy and then some low brow dumb humor can be fun at times as well.

Other Movies that I have enjoyed a multitude of times: Pulp Fiction, The Matrix (Only first one.. and has anyone ever made more money than Keanu Reeves playing essentially the same character in every movie?), Original Star Wars Trilogy (Yes, the whole Jar Jar Binx thing.. WAS TERRIBLE.. Worst Star Wars Character EVER!!), Shawshank Redemption, Die Hard, American Beauty. There are probably many more.. Just the list that came to my mind quickest.

Music-- Now I listen to more music.. Than I watch TV, Movies or Books combined.. I have a fairly wide variety of music that I enjoy.. But usually it is stuff that has good tempo and gets me moving... What I tend to listen to most would range from the Classic Rock (The Beatles, Stones, Zeppelin), to Alternative (Nirvana, STP, Green Day), to actual alternative (Oingo Boingo, They Might Be Giants, The Pogues, Violent Femmes), to Hard Rock (MetallicA, AC/DC, Guns N' Roses).. Of the all the bands listed, I am a big Beatles fan! When I visited England I had to go to Liverpool and go on The Magical Mystery Tour. That was a Beatles centric tour of Liverpool. On the whole I tend to like music with spirit and character.. I don't care if the singer is the greatest as long as the music has personality. I like most other genre's as well.. Classical, Motown, some R&B (Probably nothing more recent than Marvin Gaye though), Early Rap (Run DMC, Beasties, even Eminem is alright). I have never really gotten into Country music, though there are some that aren't too bad.

TV Shows-- Ok, I really do not watch much television.. I do watch some sports (Mostly Hockey and Football). The only shows I can really think that I made a point to watch in the last few years is Game of Thrones and House. I like the Daily Show and Steven Colbert and will watch them moderately. Spending a lot of time in front of the TV will tend to bore me.

Food-- I don't have a real eccentric taste in food (As there are some foods that I cannot eat), but I usually can find something that I like anywhere.. I like most types.. Mexican, Italian, Japanese (though not really a sushi lover), Chicken, Steak, etc..
Six things I could never do without
My kids first... and friends/family
Technology (Phone, Computer, etc..)
Sports (Hockey and Football the most)
My Toothbrush (Who would want to kiss me without that!! And Kissing is very important!!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything.. I am a bit of an analytical mind.. I think about tons of stuff. I can over think things at times, but I analyze everything.
I do think and know quite a bit about sports (I know.. Can be boring to some)
And Sex (men supposedly think about it every 7 seconds, so I guess we all do!).. But beyond the sex, being a romantic person, I like to think about ways to please, and little things that show another that they are truly appreciated.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well it is Friday night.. And I am filling out this stupid.. I mean great... survey of just how awesome I am!!!!

Well I can be a bit of a homebody, though I am out and about a bit with all the activities that I do (hockey, kids stuff, etc...).. So there are worse things than being able to crash and relax at home after a long hectic day enjoying it with people I care about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I love a great smile.. Yes teeth are the first thing I look at.. I cannot help it.. Who doesn't love a great smile and a great kiss. A smile just lights up the eyes and gives a window into someone else's being.
I am an open book, so if you have questions. I will gladly answer them. There are quite a few questions that I have answered in regards to my life and interests. I am quite open minded and looking for a like minded woman to develop a connection with or just have fun and enjoy each other's company.
You should message me if
You are like minded, enjoyed my rambling and willing to just see what happens.. If romance isn't to be had, who would turn down a friend??
The two of us