That-INFJ-Man
27Dublin, United States
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My self-summary
If you're an ENFP you should just go ahead and message me. I have yet to meet one that wasn't an amazing and fascinating person. Also I'm just not the kind of person to approach people generally so if you're viewing my profile and you're interested don't hesitate to make the first move.

If you know Myers-Briggs types then by reading my username you know a pretty general but effective summary of how I live my life. What I can say about me is I'm a good guy. Nicer than most people you'll have the honor of knowing, highly considerate, respectful, and if I care about you you'll know it. I have infinite energy when it comes to making those I care for happy.

Two most common descriptors said about me; Sweetest man alive; Chillest person ever. Take that for what you will.

Also worth pointing out OKCupid loves to tell me that I need to be more picky. I'm sorry, question system. I am not someone who judges others based on their beliefs. I believe that is something to be admired and respected, not something that I should require of a partner. Most of my questions are rated as irrelevant because I'll accept any answer.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a bachelor's degree and work in a candle lab testing various brands for safety and development so the world can smell better. I usually smell pretty awesome at the end of the day. I usually end up filling my free time with video games, writing, researching weird things, and riding my bike. Maybe once every three months a friend will ask if I want to go bowling (yes. the answer is always yes.)

I'm working on living life as opposed to working to live it at a later date, a bit of an obvious life maxim but better to figure that out now than down the road. I'm normally a very reserved guy but I am absolutely down to go out and about with someone I trust.
I’m really good at
Forgetting the basics of life while being unparalleled at the more complex stuff. Knowing exactly how to handle animals with no prior experience. Intuition is a wonderful thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Nerd. Long neck. May or may not be all there at the moment. I can be pretty spaced out at times, usually lost in thought over something trivial that really shouldn't be scrutinized.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Looking back at previous attempts at filling this section out, let's keep this simple.

Books/writing; science fiction, some fantasy, and personally I like to write essays on extra sensory powers or unusual creatures I invent either actively or from a dream.

Movies; psychological thrillers, anything with a neat critter or physics altering concept, good animation, and horror that makes you think.

Shows; Orange is the New Black (love/hate relationship there), Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, American Horror Story, Survivor, most anything on Food Network, some court TV shows.

Music; industrial, neo swing, edm, Disney, heavy metal, white noise tracks.

Food; most anything, I love to cook.

Video games; These are art and worth their own section. Bioshock, ICO/Shadow/Last Guardian, Oxygen Not Included currently.
Six things I could never do without
Music
Hot baths
Thunderstorms
Candles
Internet
First World Problems

And for a twist, six things I could do without...

Ants (good story there)
Hawaii
Large vehicles
Derealization
My voice (ties in with the ant story)
Student loans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A great too many things. I've been known to have thought provoking soul searching questions from 15 second commercials and life altering realizations of myself just the same.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking something fun, playing video games, enjoying a cozy blanket and candle, and maybe some light drinking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There's a lot of private things available to find out and I don't guard any of them. Ask a question and I'll answer with 100% honesty. Make the call yourself if it is something you really want to know.

Random fact; I really love to be choked. Not pass-out, leaving bruises choking, but a firm hand cutting off air really gets me.
You should message me if
... Having a friend that you can tell anything to and not be judged over. I need a friend like that. Still haven't met someone with whom I can be 100% open with all the time, through no fault of their own. I just don't have many people in my life and am trying to expand my trust and openness.
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