67 Aurora, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a very "easy-going" guy who does not take LIFE too seriously. Very Musical, love Movies out and Videos in....believes Women are GOD's Greatest Creation....tends to be very affectionate with the right person.....possesses a very ZANY sense of humor....loves kids..... and remembers what it was like to be one! ..... I am a very good conversationalist..... learned from past relationships..... I'm a self taught guitar has been like a best friend...


I often have my two beautiful granddaughters (12 & 10 ) or my "5 yr. old Grandson" who wrap me right around their little fingers, over for sleepovers at Grandpa's. (Ha,ha).... Not really into material things.... doesn't take much to make me happy... so I usually am very happy... I don't need someone to make me happy.... but would love to bring joy into the right woman's life.... Not really into exotic cuisine... more of a meat & potatoes kind of guy.... will even eat THE SAME dinner (Leftovers) 3 nights in a row with no problem (believe it!) A real "home body" when I am not out playing music in clubs.... But can dance up a storm to the right music. I love to give Long Foot Massages too.... to make a woman feel special... (who likes short ones? ) I always try to see the best in everyone.... at least the first couple of times...

Footnote: I feel first Dates are like JOB INTERVIEWS where either Party could actually not be hired!! (ha,ha)

I am Gentle, Kind, and (try hard to be) Funny
What I’m doing with my life
I am through with the Rat Race.... have become semi-retired.... going back to the things I love..... leaving behind Bad Management by real "nincompoops!"
I am now focusing on doing what I love the most.... enjoying my Grand kids ..... writing and playing Music... played around Aurora and Parker quite a bit over the past couple of years.... love playing outdoor concerts ....
I have never been into alcohol .... just a soda pop guy ... never got into smoking ... so I never had to worry about trying to give it up.
Enjoying the role of Grandpa as much as I enjoyed the role of being a Dad.... maybe even more! Now my third grandchild is now 5 years old and he is a riot!.... I don't know how I got rated below as "less independent" on this Site ..... unless it is because I have a need to be there for anyone who needs me... but I, personally, don't depend on anyone else..... mmmm.... kinda weird that rating...... or maybe its because I'm a "one woman" man. If the chemistry is there.... I'm hooked! I try to take steps to maintain good health including vitamins and other needed supplements..... Was completely "surprised" when I needed "a couple of stents put into my Heart" in July of 2014.
I’m really good at
I am a very accomplished musician and performer.... Playing Music is so much fun! I have written over 110 songs of all kinds..... I have a few of my songs displayed at my Music WEB Site if you are curious.

I am also a former class clown who continues to find ALL of the funny things in everyday life. I have played around with the idea of doing some "stand up comedy" recently. I love to make people laugh. My Grandkids make a great audience for their "zany" Grandpa !
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe my smile and crazy sense of humor.... my ability to FULLY illustrate a funny story with a large variety of voices and sound effects.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm into Classic Rock n Roll of the 60's and 70's... the music I grew up with that is "happy music".... but I am also into any song that is "musical" and conveys a great thought or story...... I dabble in the Stock Market so I read Investment materials from time to time... I may be 67, but I READ at the LEVEL of an 82 year old! Also, See the Movies " The Truth about Cats & Dogs" with Uma Thurman and "WHERE THE HEART IS" with Natalie Portman. Those are favorites and that might tell you a lot about me.

Generally American Cuisine is my favorite. I am probably what they call a "meat and potatoes" kind of guy. I guess I got that from growing up in the mid-west (Michigan). You won't find me eating Sushi or Spicy Mexican Food. That does put a damper on Restaurant choices. If that is a Deal Breaker, I totally understand.....
The six things I could never do without
My Grandkids, my kids... My Guitar, my music equipment and makeshift recording studio.... well written Comedy TV..... wouldn't mind adding a "special lady" to the TOP of that mix....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where slender Miss Right is at this moment... and writing new Music and Lyrics..... like the one below.....

"... As the firelight flickers... into the early morn.....
I feel you there beside me.... keeping me so warm....
With your Love it's so easy.... feeling this secure.....
Knowing if I reach out.... I'll find you there for sure....
With your love it's so easy.....
Never felt like this before........."
On a typical Friday night I am
Occasionally Checking out potential Night Clubs for employment or settling in with a great Video......Would go out dancing if I had a "special" partner....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have been divorced and technically single off and on for over 19 years.... and I have never really gotten the hang of being a real tidy housekeeper.... sometimes to the frustration of my daughter when she visits.... (sigh)
You should message me if
You are a slender/proportionate woman with a pleasant voice who has a great sense of humor and wants to be treated as the special woman she knows she is. One who likes to sing is a definite plus!
I am a good communicator now.... learned the hard way via previous relationships! Now .... I do know what my "feelings are"......