TheBagelfather
47Santa Clara, United States
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My self-summary
For those reading my profile I wanted to give a little preface. I am a gift and I am looking for someone that is willing to receive my gift and is in themselves a gift to me. I am a part of the HAI community and I accept and recognize who I am and what I have to offer. If you are about judgement before meeting someone and just look at the surface of a person, please move on.

For those that want to see through the keyhole into a part of whom I am please read on.

I am a caring, funny, loving, nerdy, and eclectic guy. Currently taking improvisation classes (CSZ San Jose) and I have a wide variety of interests such as:

Improv, Board Games, Pencil and Paper RPGs, Human Awareness Insitute (HAI) some video games, painting miniatures, sewing, Burning Man, cooking, crafting, massage, theater, movies, music, concerts, dancing (partner, such as rock/swing), going on walks, swimming, traveling (visited 7 countries in 2015), divination (runes, tarot), museums, hosting parties, planning my robot army, and more.

I work in the tech industry, but not not as an engineer. This is a film I made years ago (16mm) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yvmI8oZ7wk
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying my many interests, working on my own spirituality, and looking for my soulmate.

Studying improvisational comedy with San Jose Comedy Sportz, playing some tabletop RPGs, traveling, attending HAI events and workshops, planning for 2017 Burning Man, and trying to keep busy. Would like to find a nice venue for dancing and music.

I am a polytheist, this includes my Judaic heritage as well as my heathen/pagan practice.
I’m really good at
I am great at being creative and crafty, showing affection, romantic gestures, massage (I have reiki training), being funny, hugging, and being supportive of a friend or partner.

Being weird, let's face it I am not a mundane person or a muggle.

Physical affection wise I am really good at cuddling & massage. I am told I am great at kissing though some of this depends on the partner.

Best of all, I am really good at being true to myself and being an amazing person on this planet and helping others as well as myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
People notice that I look just like me. In addition I have four tattoos (two are usually visible), my eyes, and my smile. They also notice that I am funny, caring, and am an extrovert.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If I were to list even a fraction of my interests in this area it would run out of bandwidth. I will endeavor to keep things short.

I read a variety of books. I am not a hard core sci-fi person, but I read sci-fi. I prefer lighter humor such as Terry Pratchett's Discworld series and the Harry Dresden novels.

I enjoy the experience of going to a theater to see a film. My tastes run the gambit when it comes to movies. It can be a B-movie horror such as The Tripper, a comedy like Tropic Thunder, a romantic comedy like Amile, Star Wars,O'Brother Where Art Thou, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Office Space, The Specials, Mystery Men, Hot Fuzz, Attack of the Killer Tomatoes, Plan 9 from Outer Space, The Player, Star Trek, Star Wars, Zoolander, Boyhood, and more.

Television Shows (keeping to current): Supernatural, The Flash, Supergirl, The Walking Dead, The Expanse, Man Seeking Woman, Archer, The Venture Brothers, Heroes, Doctor Who, @ Midnight, Adventure Time, Powerless, Legion, Bob's Burgers, and a few others.

Music: There is too much to list and I'm bad at band names. I love Nerd Core (MC Frontalot, MC Lars, Adam Warlock), The Beatles, The, Gorillas, Beastie Boys, Voltaire, Weird Al Yankovic, They Might Be Giants, Clannad, Arrogant Worms, Dead Milkmen, Elvis, Elvis Costello, Sting, The Aquabats, Fishbone, Movie Soundtracks, B-52s, Killer Dwarves, Jonathan Coulton, Metallica, Willie Nelson, a lot of 60s rock, Billie Holiday, and much more.
Six things I could never do without
Friends, laughter, good memories, creativity, silliness, my craft/art supplies (pens, sewing machine, etc.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How do I find my Mexican apple thief (Scrubs reference).

Whom I can share useless trivia with, like where the spider is on the one dollar bill.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to a movie, hanging out with friends, going to the theater, Comedy Sportz, watching TV, plotting world domination, seeing if there is something to do, catching up on Tivo, art projects, and other things. Is there thus a typical Friday, answer hazy ask again later.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not one to sit idly by when there is social injustice. I don't attend every protest, but I will stand and fight for what is right. I know there are many people who voted for our current president elect whom are good people. Everyone is entitled to their view, however, I have learned very few who truly support him are people I will get along with in the dating world. I am fairly liberal minded, I do not tolerate bigotry, misogyny, hatred, or hatred based on gender identity, and am very much in support of rights for the LGBT community.

I am also not vanilla, I am freaky and fun.

If this is not you, I wish you the best in your search.
You should message me if
You are willing to meet someone on OKC.
You are ready to date, no seriously, you are ready for a relationship.
You are the gatekeeper.
The Hypno Toad told you so.
You enjoyed my profile and realize we’d have a most excellent date.
You don't support people like Donald Trump.
You are not anti-vaccine (i.e. there is no vaccine conspiracy)
You support gay marriage, equality for all races/faiths (even having none) and similar liberal ideals.
You will make me smile.
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