39Massapequa Park, United States
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My self-summary
I am looking for love and companionship, and a relationship that can grow and stand the test of time, in good times and bad. I am looking to share real, lasting love with the right person. I am looking for someone who is thoughtful, genuine, and kind. Good looks alone are never enough to turn me on completely. You can't win me over with your income level or your prestige. I'm not looking for a lifestyle or a "simple prop to occupy my time." I am looking for a person who has a good heart and lot of love to give, someone who has high level of self-awareness and a decent amount of intelligence; someone who is a good listener and who can develop a passionate interest in me, as I would in them. One thing you should know is that I usually move slowly with someone new. Especially at this point in my life, I don't want superficial or pretentious, nor do I want to allow myself to get too involved with someone if it's for the wrong reasons. I guess I am asking for a lot, but I think it will be worth it when I find the right person.
What I’m doing with my life
I don't really know what I am doing with my life, other than meandering through it at the moment. I'm sort of on a safe plateau, too afraid to take a big leap that might lead me to a more invigorating and personally rewarding life. I lack ambition at the moment, and money and prestige do not motivate me. I really wish they did. For the most part, I am not materialistic. If I can't listen to it, watch it, read it, enjoy looking at it, eat it, drink it, play with it, or use it to solve a problem or act as a convenience, I probably don't care that much about it. I am not into fancy cars or furnishings or houses or clothes. I don't usually dress to impress, but rather to feel comfortable and express myself. I would much rather live simply and experience more than own. I have no interest in being the big boss or being renowned. Right now, I have a decent job that pays ok and I like it, but it still just feels like a job. I know I have gone down a path away from my dreams and in many ways my true self, but for some mysterious reason, I do not know my dreams; it is as though they are locked away from my conscious self. I have ideas on how I want to live, and with what type of person, but I do not know my ultimate dream career or passion. I do know that what I am doing now and just living in suburbia as another muggle will never be enough to make me happy or content. I will always be unfulfilled and longing for more until I wake up the sleeping giant in my soul.
I’m really good at
Talking and not knowing when to shut up! I think I am good at writing, creative problem solving, teaching, computers, graphic design, working with difficult people, working with children, being analytical, and especially, being tenacious! I don't give up easily at all! I love being helpful and working to solve problems. I love trying to give people something positive to make their lives a bit happier and easier. I try hard to be understanding and fair, and I try to keep an open mind and experiment with new experiences and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
In the past, various people have loved my eyes and my ass, and the fact that I am caring, laid back, and easy to talk to. What you see is what you get with me. I am easy to talk to because I don't try to prove anything or be someone I am not just to impress others. I also joke around a lot. But I'm sure the first thing people notice is, "Well, this guy is a little different, but in a good way." While I suppose I am decent looking, I doubt that I usually get noticed for my amazing good looks. Maybe I am just insecure, but I get the feeling G-d didn't give me such gifts! I suppose that is okay, though. There actually have been times when people were very attracted to me purely because of my looks, and honestly, no punn intended, it wasn't pretty. It led to superficial attraction which led to things fizzing out pretty quickly. Again, not what I am looking for. I would rather be my ok looking self if it means I can attract people who want more than a guy with a good looking body or face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I love comic books. I am mostly a DC, Dynamite, Image, and independent comics kind of guy, with some Marvel thrown in as well. But I read regular books too. I have many favorites. Too many REAL BOOKS to list here. Music-wise, my top favorite bands are Led Zeppelin and REM, but I have MANY other favorite bands and artists from a variety of eras and genres. I love rock, from 50's up to some modern (though I think a lot of modern music is shit), I love classic and more modern metal, 80's pop, and I am also into jazz and blues and also like some broadway and bluegrass is pretty decent, as well as some old school country, Johnny Cash type stuff. Food... I love it! Mexican, BBQ, and chocolate are my favorites! As for shows, I watch That Metal Show, and now Arrow, and The Flash, but I generally don't follow TV shows. I love a lot of classic cartoons and shows though. As far as movies are concerned, my tastes run the gammit from OLD movies, to more recent classics, to comedy, scifi, fantasy, action, drama, documentaries, you name it. I love many different types of movies, including independent and foreign films.
Six things I could never do without
My penis. My brain. My heart (no wait, I could get a transplant). Okay, penis, brain..... I'm a very visual person so not having eyes would be difficult for me I think. And then food and water. Who really needs clothes anyway? Well, it's true. I really could live without a cell phone, and probably even electricity. But the basics? I need those!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The most random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, I am either sitting at home, or sometimes out with friends. It depends on what the plan is. I don't really like clubs. Bars and coffee shops are more my style. Honestly, I don't drink that often. I prefer to either stay in and watch movies, listen to music, talk, create things, read, and get cozy, or go out instead and explore, enjoy the outdoors, maybe see a concert or a movie or a show. Not all on a Friday night, though! I meant in general! I also travel kind of often, which brings some added adventure to my Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually not from Earth and I have mostly robotic parts. I tend not to be so private, so let's see.... I love to dress in a trench coat and wait outside the school yard....NO! I'll save that one til later. I have two penises! No... I don't know. I'm pretty open.
You should message me if
you are a good person who keeps it real and is genuine, and if you have a loving, warm heart and can be a good friend above all else. Also, if you love comics, or you love music, or you love both, or you love to read or travel, and you also meet the above criteria, and you can actually have a decent, intelligent conversation, and you are unpretentious, then definitely message me. Just please be down to Earth and don't be phony. To me, intimacy and trust and a good relationship is about not being afraid to admit who you are and that you are far from perfect, and accepting one another as imperfect beings. Let the walls come down. I am who I am, like it, love it, or move on. Believe me, I know I am not everyone's idea of the perfect lover or even friend. I am not for everyone, but that's ok. That's a good thing. Don't bother to contact me if you are just interested in a lifestyle or a husband or a pretty house. Message me if you are genuinely capable of loving someone else, if you seek true companionship and a good, honest, loving, supportive, passionate relationship above all else, and of course if you see things about me that you really like. Please start with that.
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