TheLadyInShadow
28 Henderson, United States
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My self-summary
I'm weird. I'm celtic / pagan. Celtic as in the religion, not the nationality. I'm also Bisexual.

I like to try new things. Most anything at least once.

I firmly believe that life is not about taking shelter from the storm, it's about learning to meet it head on and enjoying the sheer clash of power and exhilaration of the resulting dance of control and surrender.

I try to live my life based on the why not of things, rather than the why. I don't want to look back on my life later and see it littered with all the things I wish I had done, the things I wish I'd taken the chance on, things I wish I'd risked. You might say it's one of my biggest fears, that I will look back and regret. I do not tend to regret my mistakes, though there are a couple things, as with everyone that I do, it is not -those- regrets I fear happening. It's the possibility that I will miss out on exciting and wonderful life experiences because I was afraid to take the risk and go for what I want.

I am free-spirited, adventurous, and creative.
What I’m doing with my life
Though I still enjoy playing tabletop roleplaying games like Dungeons and Dragons, and World of Darkness, I haven't had a group in forever.

I really need to get a board-gaming group set up, too, miss playing Catan,Pandemic, Ghost Stories and Resistance. Other games, too.

I worked at the Texas Renaissance Festival in 2009, which was an absolutely amazing experience. I would really like to work faire again at some point.

I like to talk to people. I talk a lot. Conversation topics ranging from completely random thoughts to just things I've been thinking about. I like talking to people who listen AND contribute to the conversation. I don't talk to hear myself speak, I talk to share ideas and thoughts and get other people's opinions and so forth. I love debating about topics I'm passionate about.
I’m really good at
Writing.

Roleplaying.

Picking up bits and pieces of other languages.

Talking too much.

Making friends.

Getting attention.

Diplomatic endeavors.

Coming up with boredom curing endeavors.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my eyes...they're a pretty goldish green color usually, but they change colors, or my tendancy to dress in 'non-normal' clothing. I run around in my cloak, and renaissance-style shirts and skirts and corsets and the like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To list a very very few, as the list of books and music at least, grows exponentially by the day. Limiting each section to four and a half lines.

Music: Nightwish, Kamelot, Blackmore's Night, Ludo, Muse, Metallica, Gym Class Heroes, The Offspring, Echoes of Eternity, Erzsebet, Korpiklaani, Ayreon, Basshunter, Bloodhound Gang, Aina, Avantasia, Apocalyptica, Epica, Finger Eleven, Iron Maiden, Rihanna, Edenbridge, Pentatonix, Peter Hollens, Lindsay Stirling, and Voltaire

Books: The Mists of Avalon--and about everything else by Marion Zimmer Bradley and Diana Paxton. The Black Jewels Series by Anne Bishop. ASoIaF by Martin, The Vampire Chronicles/Mayfair Witches Chronicles by Anne Rice. In the Eyes of the Dragon by Stephen King. Lord of the Rings. The Harry Potter series.

Movies: The Princess Bride, PotC, LotR trilogy, Serenity, Sweeney Todd, The Phantom of the Opera, Chicago, Moulin Rouge, RENT, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, The Prestige, and The Illusionist.

Shows: Firefly, The Simpsons, V, Family Guy, House, Glee, TrueBlood, Game of Thrones, HunterXHunter, just about anything on the History Channel. Online: The Guild.

Food: Pizza, Ice cream, Cookie dough, Chocolate of most varieties, Cheesecake of most varieties, Pasta of most varieties. I'm...not really a food person much. Or a TV person.
The six things I could never do without
Love

Sex

Kittens

Internet/computer

Friends

Books

Not nessecarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Love, Sex, Life, Aetolia ...not nessecarily in this order
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends or at home being geeky on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just got ordained as a Minister. (Nov 4th 2010)

I'm polyamorous but not really into most poly relationship setups that get offered here. What I mean by this, is that I'm not interested in being anyone's third and I'm not really interested in random threesomes. I'm currently looking for a primary.

I am completely unashamed of my love of Disney movies.

Anything else you want to know message me and ask. There's a high likelihood I'll tell you as I don't give a damn who knows what about who I am, what I've done. etc.

I am, if you'll pardon the cliche, an open book.
You should message me if
You're bored, you feel like talking, you think I'm interesting...or something. And you don't mind the fact that I'm extremely open and a bit crazy.

Also if you're adventurous, interesting, intelligent, or otherwise fun to talk to.

As an aside: if you message me something that indicates an inability to type out your words (u, ur, 2 and so forth) I -will- ignore you. While I don't expect perfection therein, if you can't utilize proper spelling and grammar to some extent, don't talk to me, because it's a waste of your time, not to mention mine.

As a second aside: If you're going to be one of those people who send me a message with no substance, with a gist of 'hey baby let's fuck', do NOT try to reference 50 Shades of Grey. Yes, I list BDSM as an interest of mine. 50SoG has -nothing- to do with the BDSM lifestyle and everything to do with glorifying domestic abuse. It's neither romantic, hot, nor interesting, and you will kill -any- chance you ever had of ever getting a response, unless your message riles me up enough to yell at you. It is -ridiculous- that this is a common enough message that I feel like I have to make a note about it.

Aside number three: Stop reading the above paragraph and then asking me, apropos of nothing, to dominate you. My profile has it written in several places, but for clarity: I'm not a Dominant.
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