44 Playa del Rey, United States
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My self-summary
A whip-smart, tall, and incorrigibly positive soul. I'm a sweet, loyal, playful fun-seeker. I love to ride my motorcycle, dance and camp in the desert, play drums, ski and snowboard, and build flamethrowers, and go on adventures. To boot I'm now doing this while being the best dad in the entire universe. I have my shit handled like a man so that I can live a life of abundance. I have a great business, a beautiful home by the beach, wonderful big family, amazing friends, and a constant drive to make the world a better place every day. I am eternally grateful for the amazing blessings this life has given me so far.

I live a heart-open, hands-on life. I love digging in and getting my hands dirty, both literally and figuratively. I have 2 businesses, to keep both my hands and mind productive: I work with my hands as a technology expert, and audiovisual experience producer. I work with my mind solving complex communications technology challenges for businesses. In both endeavors, I'm my own boss. Among other things, it means I have a flexible schedule.

I am a naturally effusive person. I crave people, noise, touch, company, missions. I believe in family, and I believe that family goes beyond the nuclear. I want my loves, like myself, to be big, robust and with untidy edges. I think human affection naturally overflows its boundaries. I’m not so convinced that, for me, the real test of love is exclusivity. I identify as poly (meaning multiple loves). Therefore, I'm neither seeking nor available for monogamy. Hopefully you're already open/poly friendly, or are curious. We can discuss over coffee if you're intrigued. You're at least open to ethical non-monogamy.

I'm very passionate about both music and business, so I majored in Music and Business at USC. So its no surprise that I play drums and run my own technology business. I still play drums in a local band in Redondo. Come see us play sometime, we don't suck.

These apply to me:
(at least I'd like to think most of the latter apply)
What I’m doing with my life
Following my own path. Being the best dad in the world. Winning. Loving my family and friends. purpose vs passion. Making music. Riding my bike, skis, board, motorcycle, anything that moves. Home improvement. Camping. Building my business by helping others succeed. Appreciating it all while pushing the envelope further every day.
I’m really good at
Playing Chopin.

On the drums.

And, taking pleasure seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told I have an inviting and disarming smile. Probably true. I invite you to disarm me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: I'm a drummer, singer, and songwriter with a passion for great sound. I'd rather play music or see live music than talk about music. Sure I can rattle off a long list of band names, but who cares?
Food: I absolutely love spicy food. I bet I can eat hotter food than you can. Got heat game? Bring it.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Progress, Freedom, Connection, Appreciation. And Chocolate. And Music. And Kissing. And a good drink or a puff. And my motorcycle. And my snowboard. And Skis. Yeah thats more than six, I'm a rulebreaker.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how absolutely incredibly fortunate I am to live this life!
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking red wine, grilling a steak on the balcony, listening to Coltrane, and enjoying my favorite herbs. Simultaneously.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been arrested by a SWAT team. Twice. Its not what you think, or maybe it is. Also I'm a little north of my stated age. My body is always very warm.
You should message me if
You're a fit, positive, outgoing, non-tobacco-smoking, drama-free, non-possessive woman who enjoys doing interesting things even at all hours.

You love to hike by the moonlight. You want to surf in the middle of the week or ride my motorcycle to Vegas. Or can ski/board really well.

You integrate authentic, mature communication into your daily life. You know how to ask for what you want in a way that inspires connection, not confrontation.

You need a handyman, something fixed, set up right, or otherwise installed to your satisfaction. I'm an awesome electrician among other talents.

If you are awake, engaged and passionately alive, lets connect, co-create, and play.