45Playa del Rey, United States
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My self-summary
A tall, whip-smart, incorrigibly positive soul full of love and abundance.

My inner child is alive and well, and playful as ever. These days I'm pretty dedicated to working my ass off and growing my business. When not working I still play drums, ski and snowboard, build flamethrowers, go on random misadventures, ride my motorcycle, and to boot I'm now doing this while being the best dad in the entire universe. I live with my gorgeous readhead kiddos and awesome partner in a beautiful home by the beach, have amazing friends, and live by a mantra to make the world a better place every day.

Really, I have zero complaints.

I live a hands-on life. I'm my own boss. I'm a serial entrepreneur so I was made this way. I love digging in and getting my hands dirty, both literally and figuratively. I build stuff. I fix stuff. My daughter says "you're the best fixer, Daddy." She's right, I'm a badass with tools. I make high technology my bitch, and can make it your bitch too for the right price.

I am a naturally effusive person. I crave people, noise, touch, company, missions, adventure. I think human affection naturally overflows its boundaries. I’m not so convinced that, for me, the real test of love is exclusivity. I once subscribed to traditional relationship ideals but I think I've evolved to a better place. For me, it means more love and less pressure, among other good things. So I'm neither seeking nor available for monogamy. I am available for most other things. You do your thing, I do mine, we enjoy our time together and live in peace as grownups.

These apply to me:



(at least I'd like to think most of the latter apply)
What I’m doing with my life
Following my own path. Being the best dad in the world. Winning. Loving my family and friends. purpose vs passion. Making music. Getting useless degrees at USC. Riding my bike, skis, board, motorcycle, anything that moves. Home improvement. Camping. Building my business by helping others succeed. Appreciating it all while pushing the envelope further every day.
I’m really good at
Playing Chopin.

On the drums.

And, taking pleasure seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, with a white t-shirt, a leather jacket, and devastatingly handsome. (Bonus points if you can tell me where that quote is from)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: I'm a drummer, singer, and songwriter with a passion for great sound. I'd rather play music or see live music than talk about music. Sure I can rattle off a long list of band names, but who cares?
Food: I absolutely love spicy food. I bet I can eat hotter food than you can. Got heat game? Bring it.
Six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Progress, Freedom, Connection, Appreciation. And Chocolate. And Music. And Kissing. And a good drink or a puff. And my motorcycle. And my snowboard. And Skis. Yeah thats more than six, I'm a rulebreaker.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how absolutely incredibly fortunate I am to live this life!
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking red wine, grilling a steak on the balcony, listening to Coltrane, and enjoying my favorite herbs. Simultaneously.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been arrested by a SWAT team. Twice. Its not what you think, or maybe it is.
You should message me if
You're open-minded, adventurous, and don't smoke cigs. You enjoy doing interesting things like going to shows, checking out art, meeting interesting characters, making stuff, making out, hikes, underground parties, little getaways, etc. You strive to do the right thing, most of the time ;)

You integrate authentic, mature communication into your daily life. You know how to ask for what you want in a way that inspires connection, not confrontation. In other words, you communicate like an adult.

And of course, you paid enough detail to the first portion of my profile mentioning that I'm in an open relationship.

So enough about me, tell me about you.
The two of us