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My self-summary
"Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives." - C.S. Lewis

**Trump voters: Please keep it moving...nothing to see here. We have nothing to talk about.**

I am hoping to meet one attractive, active, happy, fun woman with a youthful spirit who wants to laugh a lot. I would like to meet a woman who can become my best friend, with the goal of developing into a long-term relationship.

We may get along really well if your friends/family would use any of the following to describe you: youthful, playful, smart, casual, fun, optimistic, happy, relaxed...
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my two amazing kids (one in college in Chicago now), working at a consulting firm, thinking a lot about the next phase in my life, wondering where the heck you are already...
I’m really good at
Being Dad, thinking, kissing (I've been told), writing, cooking, being a great boyfriend/partner/whatever :). Finding fun things to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing that people notice about me is that in real life I am charming, funny, smart, and fun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all music, all the time. I should play bass guitar, but I don't practice. I promise...I'll start again soon! Some of my favorites include Talking Heads, Neil Young, Nirvana, White Stripes, Amy Winehouse, Bobby Darin, Cake, St. Vincent, Citizen Cope, Lucinda Williams, Ray Charles, Johnny Cash...

I am a good cook and love good food. I want to cook for you. My chocolate chip cookies are legendary, and once made a teenage boy say something so inappropriate, he was almost banned from my home.

I love to read. Two popular titles of recent years that I thought were just awful: The Tipping Point, and Three Cups of Tea. If you agree, we may be soulmates. If you disagree, that's no biggie either...we still may be soulmates, but I am not likely to be in a book club with you.

Movies: The Godfather, Apocalypse Now, Pulp Fiction, Big Lebowski, Whiplash

TV: I don't watch very much TV, although I don't fear or hate it. Sopranos, Breaking Bad, The Wire, CNN.
Six things I could never do without
My kids
friends and family
good coffee
outdoor recreation: camping/hiking/skiing/cycling/kayaking
A manual transmission
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When will I pick up my bass guitar again and practice? Why do spider crickets and mosquitoes exist? What am I gonna make for dinner tonight?

Why so many women on OKC list "parallel parking" in the "I'm really good at" section of their profile. :) For those of you who admire parallel parking skills, here's a recent video of me parallel parking my Mini...
On a typical Friday night I am
At home wondering why I'm not on a date, or on a date wondering why I'm not home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I shot a man in Reno just to watch him die.
You should message me if
You want to date someone who is truly a very good guy, is very passionate, is fun, is surprisingly normal, and wants to be in a monogamous, long-term relationship. I know: so old-fashioned, right?
The two of us