34Temecula, United States
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My self-summary
I'm mostly motivated by novelty. New/different is exciting to me so I'm always searching for new experiences/knowledge/food/relationships.

I'm married to a wonderful woman. We have an open kinda-poly relationship that we love and both enjoy. We do date separate but find more time for couples.

Feminism and all forms of equality are important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently visited Vietnam and Korea by myself which was an awesome experience. I'm not sure where I'm headed next. I travel as much as work and wallet allow.

I'm an engineer with a typical 8-5, M-F job.

I love food of all types and put effort into finding that perfect hole in the wall ethnic place we all dream of.
I’m really good at
Fixing things. Solving problems. Remembering stuff (random worthless things, nothing important). Sharing my feelings. Using periods at the end of sentence fragments.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm often referred to as "refreshing". People notice my confidence and kindness.

I'm passionate and I love a ton of different different things. I love to make people laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Thai, Vietnamese, Indian, Sushi, Korean, Brazilian, Colombian, Cuban... anything new and exciting, I prefer authentic food over expensive American fusion.

Music: Smashing Pumpkins? I feel like a weirdo saying this but...I don't care about music. Music that panders (country, Christmas, Christian) is annoying. I loved the movie Whiplash but I still hate jazz.

Movies: I love movies as long as they are not directed by Michael Bay and they are not Fast or Furious.
Six things I could never do without
Coffee - in the morning at least
Asian food
My favorite belt
My favorite painting
A toothbrush
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Civil Rights
Being a super hero (or an anti-hero, Rush Limbaugh may die)
Winning the lottery and starting a "give directly" type charity
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking and painting, a movie, dinner, or a full moon party. Hopefully it's something weird and new. A lot of going to bed early for an early Saturday beach day or hike.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I read a lot of OKC profiles and almost always read the sex questions.
You should message me if
You feel compelled...

If you're poly or open I'd love to hear more about your experience even if distance or circumstance makes us a less than compatible match.
The two of us