31 North Adams, United States
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My self-summary

If you are a dreamer, come in.
If you are a dreamer, a wisher, a liar,
A hope-er, a pray-er, a magic bean buyer . . .
If you're a pretender, come sit by my fire,
For we have some flax golden tales to spin.
Come in!
Come in! (Shel Silverstein)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently renovating a house, and looking for opportunities to advance at work.

I'm mostly a homebody- going out walking with friends constitutes an outing for me. I'm usually quite content to spend hours puttering with my tea and books. I eat out perhaps a half-dozen times in a year, if friends or kin press. I go out to a movie perhaps once a year. I'm quite happy to spend an afternoon walking in the woods, or browsing through a museum- I just rarely think to do so on my own.

Life is pretty quiet- hopefully you're okay with that, or perhaps you could help me change that, at least in small ways?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, Elegance of the Hedgehog, Sacred Hunger, Stoner, Tao De Ching, Heart Sutra

As You Like It, Lord of War, Beowulf and Grendel, Six-String Samurai, Seven Samurai, Love and Honor, The Hobbit (animated version)

Pat Benatar, Jewel, Florence + the Machine, Pretty Reckless, John Denver
The six things I could never do without
The Berkshire hills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's next in my life. Right now, that's house renovations, my parent's retirement, the changes at my job...

Also, the sheer oddness of the fact that I, and likely you reading this, are made of meat...

Every time I log in here, I also get the sense I am far more shallow than I like to admit to myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
at work. My "weekend" falls midweek. Still, I'm generally just at home- I'm more apt to have a drink and movie in, or just curl up with a book than go out.
You should message me if
...You're okay with being friends, first, but understand I am here looking for a relationship.

...You are willing to be the one to start the conversation