Hardly anyone uses OKstupid in this city, but I'll leave my account open just in case. You may have to make the first move.
Sitting in the sun at the park and reading is one of my favourite things to do. Fiction, philosophy, political philosophy, sociology, anthropology, history, science, travel literature - lots.
Films: Don't know where to start, again, but The Graduate is up there.
If you're travelling around Tokyo I supposed I could be quite a good guide.