58Hillsboro, United States
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What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live a value based life, in a material based society, that leaves a legacy that reflects my soul. I strive to live with compassion and grace conscious of making choices based on the expansive power of love rather than the restrictive power of fear. Love and fear, the 2 basic human emotions. I am of service and give back to the world, community, family, friends. It's not about what I can gain, but what I can give. I made career changes so that I could be present and a good role model for my daughter when she was young - the double standards against being a good father has been disheartening. But I stand in support of my daughter, doing the right thing, against those odds. The quality of my relationship with my daughter will influence her choices in men when she is an adult. I wish for her a life of love, respect, health, and joy surrounded by family and friends. That's what I role mode, that's what I bring to a relationship with a woman. I believe in lifting my partner up and empowering her to be all that she dreams, to be an individual who is grounded through our relationship, because that strengthens our bond. I hope to have that from her in return. I also want the sparks and fire of chemistry and passion, and thrive in creating a safe and trusting relationship that allows us to openly communicate, share our desires, secrets, hopes, joys, and sorrows. Together we elevate our lives through greater fulfillment of our purpose and companionship as we are not meant to go it alone. The journey is of our making.

I volunteer my services - treating military veterans through non-profit org., as a board of directors for my professions non-profit state association. I own and run my private practice in alternative medicine....and sometimes it feels like spending to much time here.
I’m really good at
Just about anything I set my goals on and have passion for. Many who have come to know me personally have said I'm a good listener, a good communicator, a good writer, sometimes overly analytical, making deliberate thoughtful decisions which can come across as lacking enthusiasm or interest, but integrity is important to me so my word means alot and I think it through so I know I can follow-through. Passionate and imaginative.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. Maybe that I look like my pictures. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I find these long lists a bit boring when I read them so I'm going to cut this section short. There's much I enjoy in all these genre. I read more research and technical books for my profession and spiritual interest. Love thought provoking movies and the typical guy stuff, but some of those chick flicks are great. I'd love to hear your favorite music. Food...what's not to love?
Six things I could never do without
Love, Family, Compassion, Grace, Integrity, Affection, Understanding, Support, Exploring, Learning, Adventure, Hope, Mischieviousness, Naughtiness, Fun, Flirting, and a hidden
Wild side. Bad boy in a good Man.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I would benefit by not thinking so much and dedicating time to meditative works. Oh, and why's that one lady so elusive?
On a typical Friday night I am
Relieved the week is over and I can slow-down, maybe a bit of a spark - you know like the cat at midnight when it seems to become possessed and starts running through the house full of energy. Looking forward to no immediate obligations or demands on my time, family time, or time with YOU! Yeah where are you? Unless I'm packing and out of town for the day/weekend ... maybe you're coming along?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not until I know you better! I'm pleading the 5th. Show and tell? Show me yours and I'll show you mine! LOL
You should message me if
You have grasped what's important in life, have a hidden wild side, and are looking for a really great man to share it all with.
The two of us