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My self-summary
I'm a 41 year old Brooklyn transplant from St. Louis looking for someone compatible to spend time with. I originally moved here in 2001. Let's meet, get to know each other, have fun and see where it goes. I'm open to all types of activities and social events.

The opportunity to meet new people and share new experiences is reason enough alone to join okcupid. So let's do the damn thing!!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Stumbling my way through a dark room.
I’m really good at
Making steaks
Making people laugh
Debating (In fact I'm a master-debater *rim shot*)
Getting to the point
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite music includes Prince, Sade, John Coltrane, Little Brother, and Miles Davis. The neo-soul music of the late 90's-early 2000's is a personal favorite. Maxwell, D'angelo, Jill Scott, Erykah Badhu, etc. I'm still lamenting the fact that Floetry broke up. Marsha's visceral singing was just the right juxtaposition to Natalie's breathless british prose. I also like Electronica, trip-hop, Acid jazz, and traditional, old school hip hop. I dare you to try to beat me at reciting Rakim lyrics. I dare you!!!!!

I love reading, but I don't have a favorite book. Some of my favorites include The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins, Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison, and anything by Michael Crichton and Tom Clancy. I'm currently reading Game of Thrones: Fire and Ice, The New Jim Crow; The War on Drugs, and Robert Patterson's first book in the Alex Cross series Along Came a Spider. Oh yeah, I read more than one book at a time, not because I'm brilliant but because I think I have undiagnosed ADD. When I was coming up, kids didn't have ADD...they were just bad. lol
Six things I could never do without
Political discussions
Good debates
Aesthetically pleasing surroundings
Good whiskey *hicup*
FOOTBALL ...not soccer....but red blooded American FOOTBALL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who the Rams are going to draft in the first round?
Why Coltrane didn't do more ballads?
I hope with all my might that the EU breaks up so my money can go further during European vacation,
How my porn stash isn't hidden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being somewhere and doing something that involves food, wine, whiskey, or working up a sweat. The best Friday nights involve them all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like Phil Collins/Genesis...there I said it.
Don't be surprised that In the Air Tonight is on my ipod.
You should message me if
If you can hold your own in debates ranging from comparative politics to whether Off the Wall was better than Thriller.

*** If you don't have a picture, please keep it moving. I AM NOT asking you to send me a picture via email. That is an extra layer of nonsense no word you write on your profile is going to convince me is worth enduring. This is online dating, I have a picture...I expect you to have one.******
The two of us