39Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a fun curious guy looking to meet new people. I like going to casual pubs with grit to listen to random people tell stories of their crazy life experiences. I enjoy the energy of crowds, concerts, festivals, and pedalpoloza bike rides. I like learning new things at trivia, lectures or immersing myself in online articles about scientific advancements and social issues. Ultimately I love to feed my curiosity.
What I’m doing with my life
Cooling off at local rivers with friends during the really hot days in summer. I watch a lot of Netflix during the rainy season. Watching sunsets, bands, and dancing at warehouse EDM nights alone... Here to fix that.

Working full time. Currently purchase admin. I finished a graduate certificate in geographic information systems in 2014 but didn't find work doing it.

Looking for a happy, kind, and adventurous woman. Someone that shares a cheerful curiosity of the world and the confidence to venture out to feed that curiosity. I think I'd like to meet someone that wears tshirts at least as often as anything else. But maybe that's just silly? Someone liberal that makes conscious efforts to make the world a better place in their decisions, purchases, and especially during elections. But someone that also maintains critical thought and doesn't buy into every popular fad without doing their homework first.
I’m really good at
spreading happiness through humour

witty banter and intense in depth conversation.

discovering things to feed my curiosity and hedonistic desire for fun.

being honest, direct, non-judgmental, allowing others to open up.

I love hearing about people's desires and experiences.

acting non-complacently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told I appear casually confident.

I find no subject taboo and love the dirty details.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy movies that challenge my moral comforts, enlighten my inquisitive mind, and occasionally even like dumb and funny movies that go well with drinks and friends.

Funky raw rock, dirty deep bass electronica, elegant sensual vocals, acoustic guitars, and gypsy/bohemian music all does it for me. I do not like rap or aggressive hip-hop at all though.
Six things I could never do without
Ticket stubs from excellently fun times.
Symmetry. (Seriously, I love symmetry!)
Lush house plants & my bedroom patio lily garden fragrance.
Vibrant music to meet the mood.
Exciting extroverted confident people.
Something to look forward to.

I would like to have mutual attachment to someone that I wouldn't want to do without.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I long to feel the joy that comes from the sensual caring gaze of a wise and loving partner. Someone that is calm with strength of character and practices the art of subtle seduction such as gently running a finger along her partner's jawline as she passes by in a room full of friends.

I prefer people with a mature pallette that have learned to appreciate all common foods even if they abstain for one reason or another.

I cringe on the inside when I hear suburbanites say they 'hate driving downtown' or how 'bad the traffic is around the city', even though urban density reduces traffic and their choice of suburban living is actually the problem.

I find a scientific and logical mind much more alluring than one full of fairy dust, spirituality, or especially religion. This isn't to say I don't love a good costumed dance party.

I seek out those that laugh easily, play like kids, and party to excess.

When I lived in larger cities this seemed common. In Portland this has proved a lot to ask from one person. Perhaps I am just fantasizing...
You should message me if
I don't "already have plans" I simply expand the invite or adjust my schedule to work with others. Please be similarly inclusive and adaptive. First meetings should be one on one. But that doesn't mean we can't meet for an hour near where one of us is going later. (I've talked to so many people that are "not free till Friday"). I'm not here to be a stranger's Friday night blind date. Let's make the effort to just meet to say hi, sometime/somewhere easy for both of us. :-)

If you look and act like Aeryn Sun let's get married already!
The two of us