25Tacoma, United States
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My self-summary
Just anotger Washington dude lookimg to chill. Im taken but looking for friends
So I'm looking for people to help show me around and take me to cool places, shows, or really awesome hikes. Actually just a nice coffee shop would suffice.
If you wanna teach me spanish that would be rad too.
Hey there! I'm Topher I have quite a few different things that I aspire to be in my life, my poetry, want to become a teacher, or massage therapist. I'm constantly changing my goals in order to have a full understanding of life. Right now i'm wanting to expand my knowledge of culinary arts

I like being outside in the summer experiencing nature, going on walks, or riding my bike.
In the winter, being bundled up in a warm peacoat with my journal, and a cup of coffee
Really working on giving no fucks outwardly(good at), while trying to pull my life together inside(not so good at).
Things I hate: People against gender equality , homophobics, anti-transgender people, people who use the fucking F word, G word, N word, H word, or any other derogatory term about race, culture, gender, or preference. Hey everyone, let's start really caring for each other!
What I’m doing with my life
Just working, writing, cooking, cleaning.
Living in tacoma for now and trying to make my way to California
Advancing my cooking career trying to become a chef
Hoping in a couple years to go to colorado and go to school
I’m really good at
Also not getting pulled over
Making Italian food
Listening and giving vague advise to allow people to consider different options of how to go about situations
Not typing lazily
Remembering dates
Finding things, except my own keys
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a kinda loud voice from working so that
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I enjoy reading about writing, Whitman the giver, 1984, a boy named it, dry, running with scissors, glass castles, things fall apart. Tragedies. IF YOU'VE READ THE KING KILLER CHRONICLES LETS TALK!
Music: folk, alternative, hardcore, some electronic, not into mainstream rap. bands: Against me! Andrew jackson jihad, title fight, la dispute, touche amore, pianos become the teeth, at the drive-in, modest mouse, cursive, macklemore, blue scholars, AFI, 7 seconds, hot cross, saetia, cap'n jazz, rooftops, rvivr, taking back Sunday, beats antique, mewithoutyou, refused, rufio, radio head, seriously the list could keep going hah
Food: teriyaki ,sushi also Italian
Shows: history channel, adult swim
Movies: i'm a film critic anything with no continuity and a decent story behind it
Six things I could never do without
My journal
Ballpoint pens
Adventure time
My car (psych! I haven't drove in almost a year)
Good beer
Cheap beer
Corey Trevor Smokes let's go!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the advancements of modern technology has created a society that is more depressed, shy, and lonely as we are all starring at screens looking for movie romance on internet sites that feed off of our emotions so ceo's of said sites can afford to find their own happiness.
Also recipes, bank account, what time do I work today, do these pants make my butt look big,
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, but Saturday nights I'm usually hanging out with friends living it up not really caring... or writing and playing games
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I get nervous easily, I speak my mind without thinking on occasion, I like to bowl.. a lot. I can shake my hips like shakira hah
You should message me if
You want to play music on a porch while smoking cigarettes. Gamble some money at the casino, cheers to the midnight light. You want to feel emotions pour through you as we talk about the past and what we have discovered from ourselfs, and writing about it in such a fashion we can experience true happiness
Don't message me if you like Nickleback
The two of us