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My self-summary

I am a curious, friendly, sometimes outgoing, sometimes introverted person. I love reading especially fantasy, and I sometimes write stories or poems. I adore any arts and crafts though I'm not especially good at them. I like taking nature photos.

I am spiritual and my pagan religion is important to me. Partly that means I love nature and partly it means that I will have an altar in my home. I believe in the Goddess as an image of the Force that pervades all life.

I am an outspoken, passionate feminist committed to change.

I'm playful at times and childlike (and plan to be the youngest 115 year old around) but I can be very serious and love long intellectual conversations. I'm curious and will often want to try anything and everything, and furthermore, if something is of interest to another that isn't of interest to me I can end up getting interested just because the things people are passionate about are cool.

I love learning and plan to be a lifetime student. I adore languages- I speak two fluently at the moment, and two non-fluently, but I plan to increase that during my life. I also hope that I have the chance to get several masters - in social work and psychology. THough right now I'm working on finishing my bachelors.

I love baking and enjoy cooking.

I adore the ocean and approach it reverently, like the temple it is.

One of my goals is to experience everything the world has to offer. I love the idea of travel and living a gypsy lifestyle (two years per country).

I am a scorpio with all the positives and negatives that come with it. There are many versions of me, many of which are hidden, but that's me - and - nice to meet you!
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently a student, finishing up my last year s a women studies and sociology major. I intend to turn that into a masters in social work and to eventually work with trafficked women and children. my dream is to open up a holistic space for them to heal and rrecover from their ordeals.
I’m really good at
Listening.I consider that an essential skill, more important than basics like reading and writing. I mean yeah, I can do those too, really well, but the ability to listen to others and emphasize with them cannot be taught. I am but a student still but I hope to one day be a master at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
At first, probably that I'm quiet and don't attract attention. To be fair, they haven't gotten to know me yet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
mmm, I love ethnic foods... well I love trying anything new and different and exotic.

I'll admit- this is not the same for books. I'll read most things from proper books to magazines to cereal boxes. I do love fantasy and sci-fi most. I think it's the magic - I want to believe!

I'm trying to get into board games more and rp games ( d&d is a touch too complex for me but I love creating characters).

I'm not much for movies though. I watch them, mostly at home, but I rarely have favorites. Almost similar for shows. I watch several, far too many, and have catch up weekends when I hear of a new one, but if I'm busy with life (am lucky enough to be) then I ignore any and all shows.

I love music. I adore classical and metal but often listen to independent singers whose songs, or rarer voices, just touch me. Right now my favorites are Filk artists like Heather Alexander.

That said, that doesn't answer the question. Some books, some foods, shows, and movies: Turkish deserts, Mercedes Lackey novels, Once upon a Time, and Irina Allegrova.
Six things I could never do without
Hot showers! I'll cheerfully use up all the water in NYC!
Pencils, sometimes colored - I can't draw for my life but I love it - don't forget erasers
The Ocean- it's my safe space
Chocolate - I'm a sugar addict, trying to quit - send blessings!
The company of people/time alone - both are important
Most valuable thing in the world: The Goddesses Presence in my Life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend plenty of time daydreaming. I imagine other worlds and other realities. I love to write fan fiction and that takes up some thinking time. I try not to think about the not fun things because if I have to deal with them anyway I may as well give them less of my attention.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home. I am a homebody. I like going out on Sat ( to a certain club on 260 btwn w 7 and 8) but every day going out is too much for me. I need time to recuperate and relax.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still sleep with a stuffed animal when upset. Only when upset though! It's this lovely white bunny my mother gave me when I was about 10 for International Women's Day.
You should message me if
You know what vanilla means and are not one. Ok. After a bit of time on here I think I need to clarify this. If you're not into spanking a relationship between us won't work. More clarification - I'm a submissive switch. Yes, talking bdsm. I prefer to bottom but like to top occasionally. Domestic discipline, dd/lg ( reverse too), lifestyle more important than play though play is fun. Fet profile available.

I do not do fwb or hook-ups. Demisexual and utterly uninterested in casual sex.
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