50Kannapolis, United States
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My self-summary
Hello. Thanks for reading my self-summary. Right up front I will tell you that I am a big, beautiful woman (BBW, but I prefer the word 'large') so if you don't like large women, please do not send me a message. Please note, however, that I have adopted a much healthier lifestyle and I am working very hard at becoming a healthier person. Also, I do not date out of my race. I'm sorry if that offends anyone, but that just isn't my thing.

I am the mother of 4 children, but two are grown and on their own. My younger ones are 12 and 10. I love my children, they are my heart, but I am missing the one thing that would enhance this wonderful life and that is someone special with whom to share it.

I am a woman who appreciates the simple things in life. Laughter is one thing that I have found is key to enjoying life. I love to laugh and make others laugh as well.

Romantically speaking, I love candlelight, a good thunderstorm and sharing a glass of wine in front of a fire. Anything romantic melts my heart. I love to hold hands, kiss and be close to someone. I have no problem with public displays of affection. I am a very sensual and passionate woman. The NC Mountains are probably my favorite place on earth. I love long walks, even on the beach at night, snuggling up together to watch a movie or sporting events. I am also a Panthers fan. I know, I know, but maybe THIS year! :)

I have a small circle of close friends that I consider family and I love them dearly. They would tell you that I have a big heart and will drop anything at a moments notice to go help someone if needed. I am honest, loving, affectionate, and very loyal.

I am looking for a man between the ages of 35-48 who also has a sensual, passionate, and romantic soul. The incurable romantic will win my heart every time. I am typically attracted to men who are big and tall. The man that I want to share my life with will be honest, intelligent, understanding, sincere, playful, compassionate, loving, believe in monogamy, lives his life to the fullest and knows how to smile. He will find snuggling with me on the sofa watching a movie (or even a ball game) just as enjoyable as doing his favorite activity. I truly believe that a great relationship will form from what is first great friendship.

I am looking for my best friend and soul mate. Are you out there?

P.S.: If anyone reads my profile and decides that they would like to respond, please take the time to write me a real letter. I have received responses that state, "What's up?" and "How you doin'?" instead of getting a real letter of introduction. Gentleman, if you really want to impress me...used your words! Intelligence is extremely sexy! Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work in the medical field and have done so for the majority of my adult life. I work full-time at a physician's office and I wear many hats there. I work in the insurance department and I also run the lab. That's two of the hats I wear there.

I spend a good deal of time with my children as well. My youngest two are involved in scouts and I have become involved as well. They are great kids and they are my heart.

I have a wide variety of interested that I would like to learn more about. Two of those would be wine and photography. I have recently made a new friend who is an amateur photographer and he has been teaching me quite a bit out that. I'm enjoying it.

I have had thoughts of going back to school to get a degree, but I have not made up my mind as to what I would like to be when I grow up. Hmmmm, so many choices. :-)
I’m really good at
Listening and being a good friend. Some say I'm a pretty good mom, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
My size and my intelligence. I'm a large lady. It's kind of obvious. And, most people are surprised to find learn now smart I am. I guess the majority of the population equate fat with stupid. I may be one, but I'm definitely not the other.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love many different types of music and have rather eclectic tastes. I love everything from Mozart right on down to Pink! See, told you! :) I'm just as comfortable at the symphony as I would be at a Kid Rock concert.

I'm also a big movie buff and love to watch comedies, drama's, suspense and action films and yes, the dreaded chick flicks. The only type I don't enjoy are horror films. I have worked in the medical field for the majority of my adult life so I've seen the horror up close and personal ... I don't need to watch it on the big screen. :) I have to admit, however, that I do enjoy the "old Hollywood" horror movies such as the Dracula, Frankenstein and Mummy movies.

I do love books, and have quite a few here to read if I can ever just find the time. I like author Christopher Moore. He's a satirist and his books will make you laugh. I also enjoy reading biographies and other books that talk about real-life events.

My favorite cookie is chocolate chip, my favorite food is Chinese, my favorite time of day is evening as that time is the calm after the storm, and my favorite season is fall closely followed by winter.
Six things I could never do without
1. My children.
2. Fresh air.
3. My friends.
4. Sense of purpose.
5. Hugs.
6. Love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and possibilities for the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I have been going out on Friday nights to listen to bands play be it at the park or at a pub. Most of the time, I'm home with the kids, relaxing after a long, hard week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You will have to get to know me before I will tell you my private thoughts and secrets! A woman has to maintain SOME mystery! :)
You should message me if
1. You prefer women of size.
2. You are single and/or divorced.
3. You are looking for a serious relationship, true love and your soul-mate.
4. You are between the ages of 35 and 48.
5. You are young at heart.
6. You enjoy and/or desire an active sex life.
The two of us