I can't believe how many times I have heard women on this site comment about the odd behavior of the guys here. For the record, I am so normal that it may be hard to accept at first. I own a home, work at a job I have done for 26 years, support my child, laugh when it's funny, and yes sometimes shed a tear (most recently when my daughter sang at church for the first time). Love those bbq's, own a pool, love vacations (planning to go scuba diving soon). So ladies if you want someone you can settle in and settle down with, but not settle for get in contact. What have ya got to lose except maybe an evening with good company and good food.