57 Livermore, United States
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My self-summary
Well...I'm very impressed by all the articulate, well-written profiles I've seen so far on OKC, but I think there's a huge gap between liking someone's profile and caring about a real, live human being. I think if it just gives you some sense that this might be a person you'd like to meet, you should meet face-to-face as soon as possible, forget about the profiles and questionnaires and tests, and start figuring out if there's going to be a connection between you like anyone else you meet in the real world.

Having said that, though, here's the kicker...even though I felt strangely compelled to create an account here, I don't think I'm ready to put myself out there yet. Although I'm terribly lonely after my wife's death a few months ago, and miss more than I can say having someone to share my life with, to talk about how our days went, to plan trips to Hawaii with, to laugh and cook with and go for walks and watch birds with, to baby-sit the (step)grandchildren with, to play Scrabble and canasta with, to trail behind in the women's clothing departments at the mall, to snuggle on the couch and watch a movie with, to hold hands with and give backrubs and long kisses, it's still HER I want to do those things with and not anyone new, not yet, not until -- I don't know when, but it doesn't seem to be now.

When that time comes I'll come back and give this a rewrite, but will leave it at that for now. Thanks for reading.
The six things I could never do without
(I know, I'm a smartass)
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately, moping around home feeling sorry for myself...alluring, no?
You should message me if
Well, given the above you probably shouldn't if you're here for the usual reasons. Comments are welcome, though...