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My self-summary
A cup of coffee, a cigarette, and a little bit of conversation... lost art, like paper napkin poetry

I have no time for instant gratification, I will not fulfill your fantasy, and I will certainly not conform to the list of demands that holds you captive. There is no perfect match, there is just two people putting in the work.

I am an avid advocate of reality with a bullshit meter stronger than a shot of whiskey after a breakup. I have a son of 4 years now, and nothing is more real than that, and I dare you to show me otherwise. I am a dreamer (INFP) and an adventurer with nowhere to go. I am an adult that never forgot how to be a kid and I miss the days where the world wanted to play instead of being right all the time. I want to play with you, but I don't necessarily mean anything by it, and I'll extend that same courtesy to you, cause life is just too damn short to take it seriously :)
What I’m doing with my life
Coffee, art, and some other less important details.
I’m really good at
Art. Using words that i'm not 100% sure of the meaning to
and using them in a way that you will never question it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall and I slouch a little, I look good even if I'm not always "pulling it off"... sort of a Seattle Ted Mosby.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books? Jonathan Livingston Seagull, Bukowski, Stevenson, Vonnegut... you know, books that make me sound sophisticated, I have also read all of Harry Potter, some of the Golden Compass, and a good part of the Dragon Lance series... and Goosebumps, I read so so many of those. Mistborn. I am a decent mind reader as well.


TV? How i met your mother, Community, Fringe, Supernatural, Californication... (though I have mostly forsaken TV for creative pursuits and relationship bonds.)

Music? That is kind of a big question.

Food? Thai, and mostly anything.

Games? I play games. Be it Mario, Munchkin, or Borderlands I am happy to be your player two.
Six things I could never do without
Creative energy
Believing in something beyond myself,
The butterflies and sparks between our lips,

(only available at participating locations, opinions are subject to change and may vary)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
all the loves that could have been, if i'd only thought of something clever to say
On a typical Friday night I am
he writes of imaginary adventures for his friends to have imaginary friends have imaginary adventures in imagination lands
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I had a preconstructed message that conformed to the standard dating rituals so I could avoid the overwhelming existential rejection of digital transcendence. I'll probably just say something like "hello" and hope for the best.

actually I'll add this cause it seems rather important: My values supersede political affiliation, if you try to box me in or generalize me as anything other than a human for any belief I may hold then I will not hesitate to walk the other way. Likewise if you spend more time identifying yourself than being yourself we likely aren't a match.
You should message me if
You're team Instinct

Sparks aren't going to fly based on a paraphrased life and a few still life images... people are fluid, people are crazy, contrived, insecure, and wonderful. Take a chance and see what happens! It might just change your life ;)

I am honestly just looking for a good conversation now and again, maybe a friend in the process, anything else is up to you :)

that being said;
The two of us